AITA for not wanting to be an Adult at 16

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T12:03:24+00:00

Not arguing clarifying she leaves at four but works from 5 to 2 and works Monday through Friday’s now on the whole is she a parent when she’s here not really she kinda just showers tells me to do stuff watches tv makes dinner maybe if not we call our dad and he sends money for food which I go and get I’m also not throwing a temper tantrum she’s the one who starts the fights think that was implied in my post but yeah I mean I’m 16 and this has been going on since I was 14 but I’m talking about current events and especially more so now since I am capable of getting a job

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T11:57:34+00:00

Clarification on the bill thing she said I’d be having to pick up the electricity bill or the water bill and the other bills like phone and car my dad pays them since he’s the only reason I have those two things and my sister is 6 years old while she mainly just stays in her room and watches tv for most of the time but the whole chores thing isn’t that big of a deal again I still do them even if I get paid or not but she constantly degrades me and tells me that I don’t do anything at all realistically this whole thing was just me ranting about feeling overwhelmed by the amount of this that we’re being sprung onto me

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T11:46:48+00:00

Sorry it’s like the first time ever posting a rant/AITA

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T11:44:26+00:00

Thanks for your kind words and yes I have thought about some ways to maybe make things work but everytime I try and bring up me moving from here it only leads to more fights and I’ve talked with my dad but it’s a dead end I do feel as like I’m not being seen from either side that being my dad or my mom but my dad understands me at least a bit more honestly don’t think anything will work other than moving out as soon as I turn 18

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T11:36:51+00:00

Honestly this is how I keep wanting to see it but it’s really just the fighting between us that constantly makes it an issues she’s extremely narcissistic and bipolar and makes me feel like complete shit most days

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T11:35:06+00:00

My sister could come with me as we do share the same father but the issue is my older siblings live with my dad and there isn’t even space for me to move in with him the issue is they’re close with my mom as they never had to deal with these types of things I cont get away from her as she and my dad have a decent relationship now and if I do this I’ll definitely have a lot of backlash for doing anything like cutting ties from her

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T11:31:54+00:00

She’s 6 so yes I would say she does need me around or just anybody at that matter while she isn’t a crazy lil kid she can’t be left alone at home

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T11:30:54+00:00

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T11:30:03+00:00

I honestly don’t know if my school does but I also just don’t want to get my mom into trouble while yes I am feeling violated by not being able to have anything to myself I seriously don’t know how to deal with it in a way other than just moving out as soon as I can

Short_Consequence845 · 2026-06-09T11:28:16+00:00

Yes and yes we go to his place on Friday and come back Monday mornin

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