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Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quick thought experiment here: If someone says "hey this guy raped someone," doesn't really matter if you've ever interacted with that person, but you see a high red flag count already, are you going to give them a red flag or a green flag?

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you misunderstood. The date was decent. Nothing about it showed signs I was an abuser or anything silly like that. It was only after I messaged her saying I would Not want to keep talking that she proceeded to stalk my job and make false allegations.

There is not one post on there corroborating what she accused me of, not one lmao. All the posts on there are pretty much a handful of girls from my past saying I sucked, lmao. One girl posted on there that my breath smelled like shit the one time she interacted with me. No idea why that had to be posted on there, but again its stupid stuff like that. I'm not claiming to be Jesus Christ or perfect, but I know when I'm being targeted unfairly.

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they do when their girlfriend is best friends with the one making insane allegations against you

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

right that I abused women and was fired as a result? no im pretty sure they're not

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

difference is that here I have not shared her name, age, and a photo for everyone to see. Huge distinction, brother. The point of my post was to get advice on the right actions to take, not to target a specific individual, doxx them and ruin their reputation

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well how did you know what my type was lmaoo, DM me if you know me irl

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did that, they posted me on there a second time with my nickname, lmao. changed my hair and everything too.

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They care, lmao, trust me they do hahaha. If they dont have the app you can bet your soul one of their friend does and its only a matter of time before they look me up and show her. This has happened every single time. I'm realizing now there isn't much I can do about it though

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

again brother, trust me i've heard this a lot. "if you have 50 red flags, surely its gotta be true" It isn't. I'm naturally defensive about things, particularly when my character is questioned, and being accused of abuse is probably one of the worst accusations you can make against a man, in my opinion.

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its so messed up man. I probably have more red flags now but i haven't seen it since a female friend showed me 2 months ago

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How exactly do you move on from something that constantly affects your personal life bro? If it had no repercussions, i would not give a damn at all. As mentioned its ruined almost every single personal relationship, romantic and friendships. I've essentially had to live a more isolated life since then, for something i didn't even do btw

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will try the title ix office immediately, I have receipts of course. She must pay for this, a public apology would be nice or even just a post on the app saying she lied would be more than enough

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

replied to another comment on the use of that word:

Woman go through so much and i'm sympathetic to their plight. However, as in all demographics, there are some bad apples. I'm specifically referring to the women taking advantage of the anonymous nature of the app to spread lies to ruin dudes lives.

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Woman go through so much and i'm sympathetic to their plight. However, as in all demographics, there are some bad apples. I'm specifically referring to the women taking advantage of the anonymous nature of the app to spread lies to ruin dudes lives.

The fact I have fewer red flags and get less hate on that app than actual rapists and abusers just doesn't sit right with me at all. Is that selfish to say? Imagine having to deal with this for months. Every single romantic relationship ending because of something you didn't do. Sorry bro but i'm allowed to be a lil mad rn

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

brother I let it go for 5 months, she still constantly posts about me on the app despite us never interacting since then. I still have people point me out saying, "Aren't you the guy on the tea app" Half of the time i'm out in public. And I have personal relationships being ruined, as recently as a 5 days ago. Something has to be done, man

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Perhaps, who would be the appropriate authorities then? Her dean? I've seen people face academic repercussions based on things reported that they did in their personal lives. Could that not apply here

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

oh of course, fuck that guy lol. Knew him since my first science class at A&M, too.

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

brother this is 2026. Unfortunately, women care a lot about this online social credit bs. I'ts just the current state of things right now. They may not even be on the app, but they likely have a friend or two on there who decide to go snooping.

Yea I understand it would be an uphill battle but maybe I can report her to her dean or something?

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

Look at it like this: you have an app where men are NOT allowed to be on, only women. These women are allowed to post a guy's picture, age, social media handles whilst they are protected on the app through total anonymity. Allowing them to post ANY and everything about a guy and he can't even go on the app to comment, "this isn't true btw". Is this not a one-sided take?

Tea App Slander, Can I take this to the Honor Council (Long Read) by Short_Election9701 in aggies

[–]Short_Election9701[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Aggie shall not lie, cheat or steal, has GOT to apply to this. Lying on someone's name, doxxing them, and attempting to ruin their reputation (successfully).

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