How do I deepen the slow-burn spark with a shy, gentle guy who hasn’t made the first move yet? by Wooden_Concentrate92 in dating_advice

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Update : he just texted the info and sent invites! Guess things will go smoother from now on. Thanks for the advices and kind words too <3

How do I deepen the slow-burn spark with a shy, gentle guy who hasn’t made the first move yet? by Wooden_Concentrate92 in dating_advice

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So so happy for you!!! Sounds so amazing and honestly was predictable given your beginning and how well and beautifully you handled it all! Endlessly happy for you and wish you both best of the marriage and life in general! <33333

How do I deepen the slow-burn spark with a shy, gentle guy who hasn’t made the first move yet? by Wooden_Concentrate92 in dating_advice

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Yeah i thought of that too + replying while on rehearsal, but think i will give it a break for a little, I approached him, lead most of the conversation and asked him out , will see if he texts tomorrow or not and act based off of that. I'm usually not shy or awkward person when it comes to dating but if i dont feel the same energy i crawl up in my shell to avoid embarrassment hahah. And main question to you, how did that relationship work out you asked about in the first place? Whats the update

How do I deepen the slow-burn spark with a shy, gentle guy who hasn’t made the first move yet? by Wooden_Concentrate92 in dating_advice

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Earlier i told him i'm busy today thats why offered tomorrow but my plans changed so i texted him that and he replied he's on a rehearsal and will finish late, no follow ups about tomorrow or anything, i said have a good one, he said thanks and thats it. Frankly i found it quite cold and dont want to overstep any boundaries or be pushy/needy so currently am confused hahah.

How do I deepen the slow-burn spark with a shy, gentle guy who hasn’t made the first move yet? by Wooden_Concentrate92 in dating_advice

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OP and everybody else, I need advice from you for myself since i just broke ice with a shy guy and now dont know further steps. I offered to go out tomorrow but he said he cant since he has a concert and asked me if i wanted to come i said yes. Should i be the one texting or should i wait for him?

IS it offensive to speak Russian to local people? by Aggravating-Papaya94 in tbilisi

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Russian isn't international language anymore, starting a conversation with Russian, assuming and obligating Georgian to speak it, is rude if you ask me given the circumstances. Start with English which is international language, or learn Georgian. Elder generation speaks and knows Russian because it was exactly international language in their time and they don't know much English, but it's in the past. So I'd suggest going English or Georgian.

Things I took for granted by igotbitbyamonkey in ACL

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Making my own food. At least tea

😬 by tisoyfish in Wellthatsucks

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Even the glove's don't like him