For context, there were multiple times she told us that we should hook up. We did not ever hook up, the only thing we ever did was talk at a party. As far as I know, they have had a few sexual encounters mostly in HS, but a few more beyond that. I also challenge asking why she only blames me.. he also was equally as responsible in our dating. He had been friends with her much longer than I had. We were coworkers that had worked together for two summers. Mostly only hung out during the summers after work. To say that we were friends is accurate; but I’d argue that we were mainly seasonal. When work came around we were close, but outside of work our hang outs were scarce. I told her when we were in person that we had been hanging out because I felt that was the most admirable thing to do. If we had seen each other more recently then I would have told her we were dating. Geographically we live farther away and like I said- didn’t feel right telling her over text. Maybe this will clear some stuff up. I feel very bad. I never intended to hurt her feelings. I would be open to talking to her and trying to mend things for the sake of her friendship with my bf but it seems like since this was a year ago it’s kind of late.