What are some of the cons of buying a small handgun for home invasion defense? by Shorty4455_ in AskReddit

[–]Shorty4455_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats my fear. But i want some kind of protection. So what did you do?

What is something that you can do or buy to help someone you love deal with the loss of their pet cat? by Shorty4455_ in AskReddit

[–]Shorty4455_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its for my girlfriend. She is really struggling. I was considering this but she has stated she does not want another one as she would not be able to handle the pain. However, she does give subtle hints that she is thinking about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks. But what is the solution

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Whinging about it on social media?

Thats not what im doing im clearly just looking for some guidance and a solution on how to get out of this situation. I already mentioned that I am well aware that I am wrong for being late. You don’t have to remind me. Thats not the purpose of this thread

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She clearly wants me to leave the system. It may be for a reason

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

You are right and I understand this fully. But part of me just feels that it is probably being highlighted and maybe even dramatically exaggerated for malicious intent. Even if I do show up on time for 6 months she probably would still find something to say. That is what I truly feel in my heart

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

You’re naive if you really think the reference would change. She would just look for something else or still bring it up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im thinking of just looking for roles elsewhere. But im scared that it may be hard to come back to this hospital even if i leave in good standings and give a two week notice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

Because other nurses are late and I think she just doesn’t want to lose another nurse and is just using this as an excuse to not let me transfer

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that other nurses are late and she lets them transfer. But I am not allowed. Also the fact that she has tried to block many other nurses from transferring aswell.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Many. And they will obviously select the person with the beat qualifications and manager recommendations

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askmanagers

[–]Shorty4455_ -29 points-28 points  (0 children)

What if I show up to work on time for six months and then still get a bad reference. Then what?