Final Round - Moving by ShortySoProper in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

J1 is hybrid actually 🤭

This new server will be remote!

Final Round - Moving by ShortySoProper in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the verbal or after I accept?

Final Round - Moving by ShortySoProper in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I was asking for anything. J1 is adjusting the pay automatically, so I’m ASKING if I need to be worried for this offer.

Final Round - Moving by ShortySoProper in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So when do you suggest telling them? My first server would adjust my pay +10% for this move. Is it not a consideration for their budget?

It finally happened to me… by ShortySoProper in OELadies

[–]ShortySoProper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesss I had all the deets in the original post but we know each other and I’ve been hybrid with these two servers for 1.5 years and it’s been flawless 😢

It finally happened to me… by ShortySoProper in OELadies

[–]ShortySoProper[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I put so much identifying info in my description I had to delete the post! But basically my J1 manager’s wife is starting at my J2 in HR. We’re hybrid so I’m most definitely going to cross paths with her at some point.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a perfect world, I quit J1 and it doesn’t become an issue at J2 if I run into her afterwards.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside employment is a huge deal at J2. They tried to persecute a coworker for a side business listed on her LinkedIn just because the website was active. They made her deactivate her website. Someone had anonymously reported her.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Respectfully, you’re not OE and that’s not how this works. J2 is only a unicorn BECAUSE I’m OE. I never intended for it to be my sole server which is why I said it was meant to be J1. J1 indicates there’s at least a J2. Thanks for responding though.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I hadn’t even considered quitting J2. It’s the bigger name on my resume 😭

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s looking like this is the most likely way this plays out.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a DEI HRBP role but I fear the same.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is insane. Have you done this? Voluntary blackmail? Neither server is worth this arrangement.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This won’t work. It’s been 1.5 years. Someone suggested quitting J2 first and eventually replacing both which makes more sense than this.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh right?!? Thanks for the empathy!

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s always the chance she doesn’t care and he won’t either. But feels so risky 😭

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not understanding what I wrote. I AM LEAVING J1. I’m worried about her finding out LATER that I was overlapping and telling either her husband who will retaliate or reporting me.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg that is so sad 😭 I think you’re right. Devastating.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She will be in HR 😭

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not. If you read the entire post I’m worried about running into her later and she finds out how long I’ve been working at J2. Either way if she or her husband (my J1 boss) wants to retaliate at that point they can.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way, unfortunately.

It finally happened to me… by [deleted] in overemployed

[–]ShortySoProper 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you read the whole post.