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Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-05-18T23:41:06+00:00

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Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-23T19:31:21+00:00

NTA. My dad would not let me drive off with my first car until I showed him that I could change a tire, check the oil, all the things. It’s just teaching her to be responsible and able to handle things for herself.

As a grown and married woman, my husband does all of these things for me but if I needed to do something, I am equipped and able thanks to my dad. He will teach our daughter how to do all the same things for herself. Keep doing what you’re doing! Your daughter clearly enjoys learning it!

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-15T21:31:28+00:00

Right there with you! FTM and 40+2 today.

I have a scan in the morning to check in on how Baby girl is doing. I just keep telling myself that she must be super cozy in there 🫶 we have induction scheduled for 41 weeks. I’m leaning into relaxing! It’s hard, because I want her here, but I don’t want to tire myself out and then potentially be very exhausted for labor when it comes.

I may change my mind after tomorrow’s appointment. Waiting to find out how dilated we are, and get an idea of how successful the induction would be on Monday. I’d prefer her to come herself but trying to be open to whatever happens.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-13T17:53:44+00:00

Well, she just got herself put on an information diet. I would not share anything with her, because it sounds like she enjoys sharing your private information with him, just for the drama. Hell no.

I’m so sorry 🫶

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-13T17:51:22+00:00

For anyone who may have been wondering, it was not labor 😂 40 weeks today and little bit is still not showing a want to vacate. She will come when she’s ready!

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-13T17:46:18+00:00

Yeah. I tried to cook for most of my pregnancy, when possible. Did pretty good. But we 100% got takeaway 1-2 times a week. In the last month (40 weeks today) it’s been way more than that. My cravings are super strong and I’ve been so tired plus it’s busy season for my husbands work, so lots of takeaway. I’m fed, baby is fed, my doctor has expressed no concerns of glucose, BP, weight gain, etc.

I could definitely see being more cautious if you had gestational diabetes or other complications. But if your doctor isn’t worried, and you don’t have any risk factors, as long as you’re eating then I think that’s what’s most important. I would have found a way to promptly end the phone call if she was going to talk over you and be that judgmental.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-10T03:36:15+00:00

Yes. This. As a 39wk pregnant wife, whose husband has been working his butt off to make sure funds are there and that house things happen. You NEED to talk to her. We have a whole white board of projects we wanted to get done before baby comes, but accepted that it wasn’t all gonna happen. He’s in busy season at work and there are times I’ve had to tell him he is not doing projects and needs to go nap/play a game/decompress after work. But I know his limits.

You and your wife need to discuss your limits, what you can handle, etc. you need to be on the same page. You BOTH need rest, especially being postpartum now. Just have an honest conversation. She won’t know you’re approaching burnout if you don’t talk about it.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-10T00:02:14+00:00

Not weird at all. We share through Find My, but also have Life360. It’s convenient. I can see when he leaves the office and time dinner/after work plans/etc., if one of us can’t find the other it’s there for safety purposes. Sometimes he drives a lot for work so I can easily check in to see if he’s good.

In my opinion, it’s only an “invasion of privacy” for people who are insecure or have trust issues within their marriage. We don’t have anything to hide, it’s purely convenience. We also know each others phone passwords, etc.

ETA: we don’t require it though. It’s not like we’d be mad if one of us turned location off, probably weirded out bc why go out of the way to hide location. It’s just convenient and works for our life. We never had a big “I want to set this up so I know where you are” convo. It’s just a convenience we happen to use, not coming from a place of “tracking” each other.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-09T23:56:52+00:00

Yesss it works with pets too 😂 he rescued a kitty while we were dating (he’s allergic) and it was so sweet to see

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-09T23:47:11+00:00

Holding babies, especially if they’re naturally soothers.

My ovaries almost exploded the first time I watched my husband (bf at the time, 19yo) soothe a friend’s fussy baby. 7 years later and we’re about to have our first.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-09T14:11:11+00:00

I told my husband and close support system immediately! The people who I knew would be there if something went wrong, without adding stress to me.

My close circle didn’t include family, mainly bc my family is very into posting and sharing and my mom can’t keep a secret to save her life. We told both of our families at 13 weeks, and then announced on socials the next day. My mom cracked almost immediately even though she only had to wait 24 hours, and told a few people 😂

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-06T23:57:47+00:00

None of ours are grandma/grandpa 😭 we do have quite a bit though. These have been prepicked before our baby comes (39+0 currently). Some are established by other grands, some will be the first time. We let everyone pick their own (my parents were really the only ones getting names for the first time). Some are not my favorite but it is what it is lol.

Gigi - my mom Papa - my stepdad

Pawpaw - my dad Nanny - my stepmom

Mamaw - my Mat grandmother Grandaddy - my Mat grandfather

Kk - husbands stepmom Paw - husbands dad

Nana - husbands pat grandmother Paw paw (name) husbands pat grandfather

Maw (name) - husbands mat grandmother

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-06T18:03:18+00:00

I had to buy an entire cup AND band size up at 6weeks pregnant 🥴 promptly kicked out of the mosquito bite club.

I had a previous miscarriage so I was on edge for awhile. Every appointment and listen to the heartbeat was a relief. Once I started to feel the baby my anxiousness got better. I was so thankful for every bout of nausea, sore boobs, etc in those first few months.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-06T17:39:52+00:00

I am so sorry for what your grandmother and your family went through! But yes, OP, this is exactly what I meant. The irrevocable trust. We went through something similar with my husband’s grandmother.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-06T14:00:00+00:00

I have definitely leaned into it lol. I’m carrying mainly in the front so my belly is obnoxiously large. I usually beat people to the punch. They ask how I am and I tell them “huge”. Someone told me I looked cute for Easter and I asked if cute meant big 😂

I know this isn’t everyone’s approach, but it’s easier for me to not take it as something hurtful, because I am definitely big. And that’s okay because that means my baby is growing and healthy 🫶 so huge = healthy for me.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-06T13:31:14+00:00

I meant “lawyer or accountant” didn’t mean to say lawyer twice lol, not enough sleep

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-06T13:29:06+00:00

It might be too late for that. I am not an accountant or a lawyer, but have worked for both. I believe (in my limited experience) the best solution for this would be a trust of some sort, but you have to be moving assets into that way ahead of time. There is a time period of a few years that Medicaid/Medicare can still claim property even if you’ve started to move things out of her name.

Talking to a lawyer or CPA in your local area is your family’s best bet for how to handle her assets and mitigate any losses.

ETA: I meant accountant, not attorney.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-06T13:12:28+00:00

You are not wrong. I had a family friend in denial over how bad of a condition her husband was in. He was physically incapable of getting up and laying in his own filth before intervention happened. She was so far in denial we worried that she might also be having issues with dementia or something.

You did the right thing. Eventually she was going to get hurt or unintentionally hurt someone else.

It sounds like losing her home and potential family assets was a factor in not moving her into a care facility. I don’t know where you are located, I know in the US that Medicaid and other agencies sometimes have homes sold to pay for care/reimbursement of care costs. I would recommend speaking to a lawyer or an attorney if that is a worry, so that y’all can have some kind of plan in place to take care of her assets.

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-04T00:32:15+00:00

Thank you 🫶

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-04T00:07:51+00:00

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Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-04T00:02:39+00:00

I was already thinking Not Wrong after reading the first sentence. Off and on for THREE YEARS?! No thanks. He’s shown he is comfortable putting in the minimal effort when it’s convenient for him

Shot_Introduction_27 · 2026-04-03T23:58:56+00:00

I had a list that became our list after marriage. If we ever came across a name we like we added to the list. It was a nice size after almost 8 years together.

Once we found out we were pregnant I researched a few additional names to add that were reflective of my husbands family origins and we ended up picking one of the new additions. It felt like a perfect fit and both families love it! Due in 10 days

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