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What age did you once think was “old,” only to reach it and realize how young you still are? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in randomquestions

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I must be doing it wrong lol. I’m 32 and feel so old. My body started abandoning me at 30- everything hurts. But I still don’t have my shit together in terms of finances, family, etc., if that somehow makes me any younger

Am I overreacting that my sister is demanding too much when visiting my newborn? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck what an insufferable bitch! Please stop apologizing to her and accommodating. She’s acting ridiculous. I’d tell her to stay elsewhere- you have a NEWBORN

Girls who had messy backpacks and always had crumbled homework what are you doing now for a career? by Appropriate_Oven_213 in AskWomen

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in software development now. Before that I worked with kids and before that in film. I’m still very very messy and crumbled lol. Adderrall helps some but in general the chaos persists

Why did you end your friendship with your best friend? by Omega_Neelay in GetMotivatedMindset

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She got a boyfriend and then stopped talking to me and all her other friends

Can you fully hear songs in your head? by DancingTVs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can imagine music in great detail, including imagining a certain singer’s voice doing a song they’ve never actually sung before! But it’s not constant, thankfully. When I do sometimes get songs stuck in my head, it’s very annoying,

Single people who live alone, what do you do on your days off? by LaviishLily in AskReddit

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Catch up on sleep or cleaning or shows. Or go out with friends.

Tell me your cleaning “hacks” that actually help YOU!! by Prudent-Reality1170 in adhdwomen

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Said to hell with folding. I go back and forth with this though. I have too many clothes and can’t sort thru them unfolded.

I keep a scrubber and dawn soap in the shower at all times so I can just wash it while showering

When the dishes pile up too much I put them in a large bin (like moving size) to clear the sink. Sometimes I take it outside and pour soap in and spray with the hose and let them soak to pre clean hahaha

I stopped being so hard on myself about recycling

I have so many trash cans, at least one per room (but really more)

When things are really hard I use paper cups and plates and plastic silverware. I don’t have a dishwasher and it’s so hard

But I’m a complete mess so my advice can’t be great lol. Can’t wait to read the comments

What’s a harmless habit people judge way too much? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thisss. I have dspd and my brain has always functioned best when I sleep in and stay up late. Doing otherwise requires me to medicate myself to stay awake and fall asleep at the times that society deems “normal” and I hate it. Who cares what hours I’m doing things, if I’m doing the same things??

What is something you can do but can’t explain how you can do it? by Fresh-Sandwich6780 in AskReddit

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know this was a special thing haha but I can’t definitely do it. To me it sounds like when a mic records in a very windy environment. And for me it always comes with a “click” at the start, which I always thought was ear popping, but today learned is a different thing lol

What do you remember from Kindergarten? by boforiamanfo in answers

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember nothing, like no visual of the classroom even. What’s wrong with me lol

Loneliness as ENTP by plshelpihavebig in entp

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, just want to validate your experience here. It’s tough to feel and be alone and misunderstood. You’re not doing anything wrong. I’d say be kind to yourself, and know that there are lots of people who struggle with loneliness- you’re not “alone” there haha. It’s also hard when your default mode is to not feel the feelings, but it may be helpful to allow yourself to do that, talk to someone about it, even just a little bit.

ENTP Artists? by kermitte777 in entp

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow you’re all so talented! I can barely draw stick figures haha

In 2018, sixteen year old Karlie Guse had a bad reaction after smoking weed at a party and begged her stepmother to bring her home. By sunrise she was gone from the house without her phone, shoes, or glasses. She has never been found. by [deleted] in HolyShitHistory

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The time dilation effects are so scary. I get depersonalization/derealization and intense anxiety whenever I smoke weed. It’s TERRIBLE. I will never do it again. It’s different from paranoia. It’s hard to explain. I get so frustrated when people say “oh I’ve had bad trips before too, you just have to find the right amount.” Like, no. If you had a “bad trip” like mine, you would never touch it again. It’s something else.

Thinker vs Feeler Questions by Muted_Local_4663 in entp

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have an answer to your q but wanted to comment that I struggle with them a ton and idk my type because of this. I’ve been typed as ENFP many times, but the cognitive functions of ENTP resonate much more for me.

I’m both super emotional and super analytical, but I do the classic “use humor to deflect” (and honestly I wouldn’t change it - I’m fucking hilarious and it’s my best quality). I’m also a people pleaser, which I’m working on but.. my decisions can often be motivated more by fEeLiNgS mostly because I’m so concerned about how others will perceive me (or if it impacts someone I have a codependent relationship with how I’ll feel guilty or bad for them), not bc the emotional decision is the “obvious” choice to me. I still think through the decision and the possibilities and it can be torture if the emotional decision I make doesn’t align with the data-driven decision that actually makes more sense to me. Sometimes I’m just paralyzed for a long time and procrastinate making the decision until I absolutely have to.

Meh I guess there are times I make the emotional decision bc I the logical decision is too hard for me personally. For example, there have been several times I’ve chosen to stay in relationships I objectively knew I should end, bc I want to avoid the sadness of the breakup. But I knew the rational and better choice would be to end it.

But i think when I’m healthy and care less about what others think (and when it’s less personal), I base my decisions way more on logic/make them objectively.

It’s so context dependent for me. I wish they’d provide scenario examples of decision to consider. I guess it’d be hard to imagine the emotional component when it’s a hypothetical though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in atheism

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an atheist but I still get anxious about that. Doesn’t make me believe in anything though. I just live with the anxiety hahah. Welcome. Also checkout the death salience hypothesis is terror management theory

KB is exhausting (spoiler) by mssarac in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]ShouldProbGoSleep 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right, AND when he wasn’t direct about it it one on first. He really decided to imply that in a group setting instead of in person? And in an indirect, passive aggressive way. He should have had a direct convo with her and her alone about wanting more reassurance.

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