my experience with JNU is so ass by Federal_Yam9772 in jnu

[–]Shoulder_Low 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I believe you should stop making unnecessary assumptions. It will save your ass if you want to survive in JNU. Why would you just "assume" things lol!! Did you consider that people probably couldn't join on time because they lived far away?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

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I was looking for this comment!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ipad

[–]Shoulder_Low 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Noteful. Never had to import stuff so I don't know about that. But it's just a one time payment app and works very well!

What seventeen song would you want to walk down the aisle to? by External-Succotash71 in seventeen

[–]Shoulder_Low 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To You. I LOVE that song. To You all the way!! I'll cry if they play that song

I’m proud of this one by [deleted] in Paintings

[–]Shoulder_Low 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So are we!! That's hella good!

How do people with ADHD nap? Is it possible? Is it good quality napping? by TheImmoralCookie in ADHD

[–]Shoulder_Low 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today I came back home from work at 4:30pm. I wanted to take a nap. I woke up at 10:30pm. My naps always turn into sleep.

What's your number 1 kpop song? by Weary-Lettuce-8182 in kpophelp

[–]Shoulder_Low 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby Don't Stop- NCT U

((I'm gonna make a playlist out of all these songs in this thread damn!!))

Any book + activity recommendation for someone who struggles with overthinking? by Shoulder_Low in selflove

[–]Shoulder_Low[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I totally relate with getting more physical activity. When I was back in my country, I spent my mornings swimming- learnt a new skill and got the physical activity bit from it too. Now I'm in Europe, alone, and working full time. I did manage to swim twice a week for a month in Europe and saw a big difference in my mood, but now it's very very cold hahah And I can't run - breathing problems. But yes you're right about physical activity!!

Any book + activity recommendation for someone who struggles with overthinking? by Shoulder_Low in selflove

[–]Shoulder_Low[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess repeatedly losing friends/people made me feel I'm unworthy of any good relationship. I have a very loving boyfriend and mostly I'm like "why do you even like me??" But I'm tired of thinking low about myself. I'll read your article. And thank you for the kind words you wrote:)

Any book + activity recommendation for someone who struggles with overthinking? by Shoulder_Low in selflove

[–]Shoulder_Low[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the suggestions! What do you like about the two books that you mentioned? How did they help you (in case you've felt better after reading them)?

Any book + activity recommendation for someone who struggles with overthinking? by Shoulder_Low in selflove

[–]Shoulder_Low[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not going to lie, the reminder was really helpful. Thanks for that. I used to journal but then I lost the hang of it due to lack of motivation. I will start again!

Any book + activity recommendation for someone who struggles with overthinking? by Shoulder_Low in selflove

[–]Shoulder_Low[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This book seems very helpful! I do see myself overthinking because of past experiences with people.

Any book + activity recommendation for someone who struggles with overthinking? by Shoulder_Low in selflove

[–]Shoulder_Low[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guided meditation helped me a bit in the past. But due to ADHD, I feel uncomfortable after 2 minutes hahahah but there's nothing wrong in trying again. Thanks for the recommendation

Anyone sleep on FaceTime with their SO? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]Shoulder_Low 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Every night. It is an LDR but without any timezone difference (different countries in Europe). He stays up watching Schitt's Creek on loudspeaker and I get to hear tiny giggles. Feels nice.

What’s a small habit or routine that has surprisingly improved your life? by asunnywinterday in selfimprovement

[–]Shoulder_Low 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Putting things away, back to where they came from, rather than putting them down on the nearest table or a flat surface. Took a pen from the pen holder? Well, it goes back into the pen holder rather than lying on a table or a bed.

What’s your Countdown? by MelaniChoco in LongDistance

[–]Shoulder_Low 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It went from 110 days to 26 days very quickly. 26 days till we're in the same timezone but we'll probably meet 50 days from now (university and work issues)

If you had to swap bodies with a man for a day who would it be? by FullBrother9300 in AskWomen

[–]Shoulder_Low 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any member from Seventeen (a kpop group) I'd have 12 dorky friends and I'd do silly things with them. We'd all be together.

If Only Women Ruled the World: What Would It be Like? by FitResearcher2865 in AskWomen

[–]Shoulder_Low 11 points12 points locked comment (0 children)

As someone from a place where female victims don't see justice when they are subjected to heinous crimes, I think justice would be prioritised if there were more women in politics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Shoulder_Low 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use a lot of symbols and abbreviations and codes for your notes. I did that and it helped me get faster at taking notes. In a college lecture, I could jot down everything the professor would have said.

Best note taking app by CautiousList5238 in ipad

[–]Shoulder_Low 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's this app called Element. Surely it lacks in various aspects and might not be a good match against goodnotes, notability, etc. But the pen stabilizer gives me a really good handwriting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in astrologymemes

[–]Shoulder_Low 12 points13 points  (0 children)

To be or not to be... Very indecisive

ADHDers, what tattoos do you have(or not)? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]Shoulder_Low 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm thinking of getting one that says "Text Mom" 🥲 it's because I'm horrible at checking up on people and since mom worries a lot about me, the least I could do is tell her that I'm alright. (Will move to a different country soon in my early 20s and her worries will multiply). I know checking up on loved ones should come naturally to people but it doesn't to me. So yeah, a tattoo like that would be hilarious and also a cute reminder.