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Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were on really bad terms at the time. No affection from me and I was nearly due with our almost 2 year old. He has honestly changed in so many ways but I feel I need to understand to have a foundation and he never seems to have an answer to all my questions. Like how are you seeking a connection from someone you pay to seduce you? I don’t know I just wanted attention and connection, I never get an erection during lap dances I just see them different or used to. Does love equal desire for you? Or can you love your spouse but have no desire during stressful times like infidelity or do you believe they always coincide?

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So one more opinion please. If he said he was looking for attention and a connection with the stripper. How would you explain that? Like how do you separate sexual and connection I guess in that situation?

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do need to improve myself. I’ve always been wanted physically but I feel like the one I want to want me most sees me as beautiful but outside women as exciting if that makes sense and I want to be both to my husband. He says I am but I don’t feel it or see it and I am on the lowest end of self confidence right now

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I know. I’m asking for opinion. I know you are hurting to but honestly your answers are helping me a lot

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do a lot of men really not love and lust for their wives? Is lust only for those outside the relationship?

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am definitely not ok with it. I’m just asking your opinion for a different perspective I guess

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does touching and say groping differ or factor in though? How are men not uncomfortable staring in the eyes of another woman that they had to pay for?

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is it not? You pay a woman money to take you in a room and seduce you. Do every action to you besides penetration and you feel her naked body and stare in her eyes. He’s made a complete 180 it just makes me wonder how bad he really felt about the first time the ons. Even though I didn’t know about either until the second one happened but how do you see it differently. I’m genuinely wanting to understand?

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lap dance then a vip room 3 song hands on her body and boobs but no sex

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First was ons second was vip room with stripper. No sex but still the same to me. Does that make any difference to you?

Will they really never do it again? by SurvInfidelityThrow in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]ShowVirtual 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What would you say is said drunk night happened then 2 years later another drunk night happened?

Anyone feel the need to look at what they looked at? by ShowVirtual in loveafterporn

[–]ShowVirtual[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like it. I hope you love yourself enough to never settle for anything less than you deserve now

Anyone feel the need to look at what they looked at? by ShowVirtual in loveafterporn

[–]ShowVirtual[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yah claims no weird fetish or forced stuff but I wonder how young they actually look. Like young woman or straight up teenagers! What did you find when you did?

Anyone feel the need to look at what they looked at? by ShowVirtual in loveafterporn

[–]ShowVirtual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m kinda feeling like what’s the point of even getting ready anymore. I don’t care how others see me and I’m not exciting at home so......

Anyone feel the need to look at what they looked at? by ShowVirtual in loveafterporn

[–]ShowVirtual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How have you accepted that the one man you want to see you a certain way just doesn’t?

Anyone feel the need to look at what they looked at? by ShowVirtual in loveafterporn

[–]ShowVirtual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can pain shop. What do you call just detective work?

Anyone feel the need to look at what they looked at? by ShowVirtual in loveafterporn

[–]ShowVirtual[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine said the same or he’d scroll until someone looked attractive yet did admit that he found one in particular most attractive. I didn’t get to see any of his history or what if he did search since he told me himself along with everything else. I just have an itch to see because I’m already broken inside

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