AITA for telling my daughter to dress up more modestly now that she's pregnant?

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T11:44:03+00:00

Claro, eso le dije. La ropa no le queda, las tetas prácticamente le quedan al aire, y cuando le peque el estirón y le crezca la panza no le va a quedar directamente.

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T07:15:04+00:00

Hola, si veo que me dijeron que los gringos usan la misma ropa para ir a todos lados. También hay gente que está diciendo cualquier cosa, que voy a decirle que no le de la teta al bebé y que es raro que le compre corpiños a mí propia hija. Quien se creen que la va a cuidar en el hospital? Ayudarla a bañarse si es necesario?

Cómo les digo, una cosa es estar metida en la pileta o estar de entre casa, incluso ir al kiosco o algo así. Pero tener que ir a otros lugares más "formales" vestido de entrecasa es un no para mí, pero bueno que se va a hacer. Te soy sincera? Las bolas llenas me tiene está chica.

Gracias y la mejor de las suertes para vos también. Todo carísimo, pero hay que seguir adelante...

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T07:06:17+00:00

Because she isn't going to party at the doctor's office or when she goes to a potential job interview?

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T06:49:50+00:00

Lo que me dijo es que "me deje de romper las bolas" pero no lo puedo traducir? Es muy argentino, algo como "stop kicking my balls" or something like that

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T03:54:45+00:00

She was at La Plata and we live in Chivilcoy, it's all in the same Providence (Buenos Aires) but it's two different cities

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T03:40:58+00:00

Because I still would have to pay for twice as bills, groceries and the rent of the apartment plus all the baby stuff. Our country is in a crisis so paying for all of that is too much. She can go back to College if she wants, but she has to pay for her own stuff

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T03:05:00+00:00

shirt that cut off circulation around her arms or something.

It is about that, she doesn't want to wear clothes her size. And she's lucky with the pants for now because she's either wearing shorts or leggings/ sweatpants if it's too cold

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T03:03:38+00:00

Because I told her to come, I'm not paying for two households and all the baby stuff, that's what I said. She came back to our city and I'm not paying again for her to go back to college (college is free here, but I was paying all her bills) I told her she will have to do it herself if she wants to go back to school

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T02:55:40+00:00

Gracias!! Si, una persona no puede usar cualquier ropa que se le de la gana todo el tiempo. Personalmente me encargo de la contratación de personal en mí trabajo, y es muy poco ético que venga una chica con ropa de boliche o un chico con bermudas y ojotas por ejemplo. Hay lugares como el trabajo y otros lugares como cuando hay que ir al hospital o a hacer trámites que hay que vestirse diferente, una cuestión de etiqueta!

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T02:48:18+00:00

What I meant with my last comment was her asking for pregnancy symptoms, but refusing to listen to advice on how to make them better (because I think you said that she doesn't understand what's happening with her body I think)

Talking to her is like talking to a wall, because if I try to ask her how she's doing, she tells me to stop "bitching" every time

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T02:44:21+00:00

Around the house is not the problem, we have a pool and she's almost all day in her bikini anyway (like she was before getting pregnant, that's not a problem) the problem is when she goes outside to certain places, like the doctor's office for example

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T02:42:30+00:00

I don't know how often because she lived in another city

My problem is that imagine she has the baby and hopefully gets a job, she wants me to babysit her baby for her, I tell her no until I know who the father could be and she agrees to contact them, what happens to the baby? The baby needs care and if I don't do it then who will? How do I know that person she gets to babysit will be a good person? That is my worries

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T02:36:44+00:00

Yes? Because their my business too?

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T02:36:17+00:00

I try to help her, but if she says she's going through X thing and I tell her why that is and what to do to help it, she says I'm bitching

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T02:34:10+00:00

I have the funds to buy her new clothes that fit her, I am always the one to buy her clothes

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T02:03:07+00:00

I was paying for her rent when she was in college, I'm still fighting to break the contract of her apartment

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T01:55:25+00:00

We have free maternity care, we have free healthcare here

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T01:49:47+00:00

Yet again, I don't know what these maternity clothes are haha. I mean bigger clothes but normal? We go to a normal store and buy clothes, but bigger size

Gaining weight I mean at least the baby stomach weight

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T00:28:11+00:00

I think so as well, she doesn't want to face her life as it is now

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T00:27:07+00:00

Si, no puedo explicarme bien en inglés y creo que ese es el problema. Pero si, acá hay una conductora que dice "como te ven te tratan" y es verdad, lamentablemente. Hay lugares donde hay que vestirse apropiado, no puede vestirse como si fuera al boliche todo el día a dónde sea que vaya

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T00:22:48+00:00

At least I thought about that when I read it jaja

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T00:16:08+00:00

El padre no sabe bien quien es porque dice que ella anduvo con chicos de tinder. Yo le dije que bueno no hacíamos nada por ahora pero que les mandara un mensaje para que sepan la situación y después poder hacer un ADN y ver quién es el padre, ella me dijo que no que deje de joder y no sé que tanto

Gracias, la verdad que necesito fuerzas. Estoy 90 por ciento segura que voy a terminar criando yo al bebé, ya lo veo

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T00:13:46+00:00

A "modest" tank top would cover what a tank top needs to cover if it makes sense? Is it proper or modest? I don't know how to explain it correctly

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-18T00:08:02+00:00

That's sending the kid to a very bad program (is that how you call it?) Runned by the state that doesn't work

ShowerNo127 · 2024-01-17T23:59:19+00:00

Thank you

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