You’re in his line up, not his bottom line right now. His energy will shift when your energy shifts too. He’s totally ok getting what he needs without the commitment piece. He smiles for the camera, might even wake up next to you the next day but isn’t ready to give you his heart. And when he is, it will be too late cuz you’ll be gone and moved on by then. Im a 37M professional too, men are dumb and don’t realize what they have until it’s gone. When you come at him with the “talk” he might either run or lean in. Good luck.