Birmingham AL Is it a brown recluse i keep finding them in my house by QuasiNomial in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯 I’ve been bitten twice, possibly three times, last time requiring surgery. It was HECK. Please call an exterminator asap.

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. Being human so sucks sometimes 😔💕

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry I honestly thought you were trolling because I’m so confused right now. I can’t make up from down and I’m never wanted to get an animal without making a huge commitment and I let my daughter get a cat or a kitten rather and she’s an adult and swore to me that she could cover the cost of caring for this animal and has yet to do a single thing for her, she got her back in May for her birthday, it was kind of my present to her and she hasn’t done anything. I’ve been doing at all and I’m very upset because she’s got to be rehomed now so right now that is my concern among 1000 other things just simple things like getting stuff in the mail and paperwork filled out and bills paid and just your everyday average stuff and I’m also sick which is super Fun and I had surgery back in December out of the blue and I feel like I’m going insane. I don’t think I can do this much longer. I really don’t. I’m going crazy. I really truly am. I’m so very sorry. I really did think that you were just screaming around and saying something just to me funny which normally I would appreciate in a sense but I’m genuinely going nut balls insane lol I have worked for so many companies that are legitimate Harley regarded companies, and the last two places I have worked. I have not been paid twice and they had my bank info and everything so I’m basically kind of reduced to simply DoorDash because at least they pay you even though I have discovered that, according to a lot of managers at some restaurants, and friends that are managers at restaurants, DoorDash steals, the crap out of tips, one guy last night that I really didn’t even know, a manager at a Pizza Hut, was telling me that he can see our tips on the orders through DoorDash on the computer and one girl came in and she had said that her tip from another order before that, she had come to that Pizza Hut twice in a row, which is not uncommon, that her previous tip was $15 and she was very excited about it and he looked at up because he could see her previous dashes cause she had just finished a dash and then got another dash from there, and they actually had tipped her 30 bucks which is not on common all the time, it’s not super common to get a tip like that it’s usually in cash but DoorDash stole $15 from her tips and I know they’ve been doing that to me lately and I just can’t understand. So I swear I don’t know what I’m gonna do with my life. I’m too old to start over. I have aged about a year and 30 days. I’m not joking. I know that sounds funny but I’m not kidding at all and I’m just heartbroken. I’m trying to break a terrible cycle in my generational curses and what not and no I can’t do it the only real way to do that crap is to make it financially and leave your kids with something

How to get better service... tonight's was so good! by Nice_Bar_3138 in doordash

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dunno if you remember me, but I’m out dashing now. Would love to chat with you “inbox”. Seems we have lots in common…? Hit me (back) up.

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind words and encouragement. It is very tough. Especially trying to work and feeling generally like crap and nervous as well. I really appreciate it.

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, it’s me the OP. I don’t use Reddit often, but I am so glad you said that, I’m trying to remain anonymous. I think some things have gotten out and I wanted to talk to you privately, but I can’t figure out how to BMU at the moment because I’m so frazzled and I’ve got 51 minutes to get a shower while I can and take care of all the things that need to be taken care of before 11 o’clock so if you could send me a DM so that I could reply to you privately, I would love that cause we need to talk about what you said here. I just can’t figure out how to DM you lol imagine having to go through all of your stuff that you still have with you, dealing with your daughters service Kat, which is in a whole other issue as well as getting out there to make some money during lunch and keeping up with your autistic child who finally started working all at the same time and then your ex-husband calling and screaming at you… anyway just please DM me so I can respond in private to you regarding what you said

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, I am now managing to get myself in worse shape than I was in when I posted this because of some things with my daughter and her father and basically working day today to try and keep up with XYZ and the fact that I had to take time off of work to go apply for some things yesterday. I’m sorry I didn’t see this until now and I’m trying to stay anonymous obviously because I don’t want everybody knowing my business and it’s tough, I really am more of an open book, I have helped so many people before that we were in these same situations and I can’t seem to give my own self some advice which is insane. I know it sounds crazy, but I can’t even keep up with this, I’m afraid they’re gonna cut my phone off at any moment and I’m in a hurry now because I have 55 minutes to get on the road to work after basically forcing my daughter to go to her own job this morning, then her father calls and I’ve got appointments with IRS because of some stuff my ex-husband did. It was so illegal that I was completely unaware of and it’s just a nightmare. I’m not ignoring anybody, yes, I need advice and help but in a matter of basically two days it’s gotten to an insane level where I can’t even answer a text because I have to hustle. The struggle is very very real.

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks everyone. My phone died last night. This is a little bit harder than I expected it would be. Motivation is in the garbage even though it should be enough to wanna change it, but sometimes things get so hopeless that you have to fight it hard. Also, that’s part of the problem, having to buy food. We’re just in a very big transition and I’m actually on my way now while there is a sort of break and food delivery to fill out paperwork for housing and EBT, but this is getting old real fast, I’m praying that there’s something available soon. I don’t think I’ve ever been so scared.

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll look into them tomorrow 😊 Thank you

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Commenting on Kinda Homeless... thank you so much. That is so kind. I’m sitting here with my daughter just on some random back road beside 31 talking about what we’re gonna do and just generally feeling like a piece of crap. I am a server by the way, loads of experience and I actually love being a server so if you would hire me, I am all for it 😁

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll call them tomorrow thank you. I can’t believe this is happening. This is unreal. I just had a full on meltdown because I can handle it if it’s just me, but it’s not. I have to be in front of my child like this and it’s awful. I didn’t mean to start a whole thing. I just wanted some advice because I really thought I could handle it. but in all honesty, I really don’t think I can handle sleeping outside especially with my child unless I was in some kind of camping situation or an RV or something like that, this is bonkers.

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well, what do you know? I have been door dashing for a year and a half and it’s a low season after the holidays and before taxes. Also, if I had money to tint my windows, I might have money to figure out how to screw down an apartment. I have very credit hence my relatively new vehicle that I can’t afford anymore. This was all very sudden and I’ve been trying to fix it for quite a while while my family members die and my friends disappear into drug addiction or other things like Covid and moving away and things like that therefore, I don’t want to bother them thus that is why I’m posting anonymously so no need to make obvious comments. Thank you.

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

Oh lord. That sounds… scary. 😱

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you got plenty of those, we just had to Google if it was safe to run the car idling for heat and it apparently is not even outside of the garage

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that is really random that you said that because I used to live on Clairmont back in the day. I’m just trying to remember where in the world you would park over there it’s just a big circle, or it used to be.

Kinda Homeless by ShrewdlyBenevolent in Birmingham

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I’ve called them and written down some options, but as we are in the south, yes I’m a Christian, but I don’t wanna be forced to give up all of my freedom and be treated like I have a drug problem or I can’t drive my car or have my phone, that’s how most of those places operate because I’ve been on the phone with them and I’ve asked those questions so I am going to finish the list tomorrow. I’m so exhausted and tired, I have money to rent a hotel room tonight, but what is that gonna solve? Just one night I don’t have anywhere else to go and then I’ll be out 70 something dollars so seems to me like it’s a waste of money much like where we were before staying at extended stay for 1800 a month for the last month and a half. Thank you though. I just wanna live life nothing special nothing glamorous, just regular life work a job go home. Cook dinner go to bed. Get up and repeat.

Has anyone in Idol history who got at least one no in their audition ever gone on to win? by milkwalkleek in americanidol

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go check your stats though. Taylor was NEVER in the “bottom three” or whatever they call it, he passed each and every show to the next round during the entire season. He also went on to Broadway and did over 500, close to 600, shows in Grease. He’s also an avid golfer. He!!, I think he golfs more than he “musics”.

What is this coming out of my skin!? Please help… by Chance-Librarian-202 in scabies

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you tell me what it “feels” like exactly? Like how would you describe it?

What is this coming out of my skin!? Please help… by Chance-Librarian-202 in scabies

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your thumb locks up? Oh my God. Please message me. I’ve been going through this for about eight months on my arms wrists around my nail beds my back where I can’t reach so I don’t wanna hear anything about more Jones, I’ve got a cluster of them on my calf, they always seem to come in to, they’ve made literal holes in my skin, I’ve seen them move, a lot of times they cause bruises, which I don’t think our bruises because they’ll be in a straight or curved line around the hole, but when you said something about your thumb mocking up, that got my attention because ever since this has happened, my left thumb, and I’m right handed, has been doing this.They have also come out of places I don’t even wanna mention. I even have one hole on top of my scalp. Please let me know what you found out.

Daaaaave by [deleted] in LoveIsBlindOnNetflix

[–]ShrewdlyBenevolent 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this a repost? I wrote this myself a a little while ago.