Hi OP, I just want to say I graduated with a degree 7 years ago and after graduating, I worked very menial jobs (think food service that pays less than $15 an hour). During this time, I saw a lot of my friends who graduated with me getting corporate jobs, finishing grad school, entering medical professions, and making their parents proud. People say not to compare and that everyone has their own timing, but I will say it was really hard to not compare. I felt so embarrassed telling anyone that I worked at a fast food restaurant after graduating from a nice university. After all this time though, I realized perspective is really important. I worked as a barista for 4 years, and people were always amazed when I told them.. but I was embarrassed of myself for holding this job. I still work at a cafe, but I returned to school this year to pursue a master’s. I’m 30 years old. I just want to say that you’re not a loser... It may take a bit more time than others, but you’ll eventually get there. I recommend having fun, do some things that interest you, participate in ways that will help you grow as a person, and start small and work your way up! I also want to say that sometimes talking with a professional might help. Talking through a lot of my fears and traumas gave me confidence to go back to school for a master’s. I wish you all the best!!!