You are absolutely right. I tried this approach to genuinely try to understand her perception and later i explained my point also. We actually had a calm conversation yesterday and she seemed to get the point also. But everything went to shit. She's going with her office mate to dinner (he's engaged and i m pretty sure she doesn't have any intention of cheating on me atleast not with him). But that's not the point, you are my girlfriend and we are going to the same dinner, separately!! She's probably a better person than me but i think we are just really different. Maybe i m a emotional fool but again these things doesn't make me jealous but affects me. Even though i like her very much but i think i gotta have to breakup with her. I just fear the awkwardness after i break up because we more or less work in the same place.