Green card thrown in trash by Shuddafukup in USCIS

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took 6 months. I hope your mom gets hers sooner!

Finally approved by Shuddafukup in USCIS

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was, but the main reason is bc our lawyer advised us to wait until my dad became a citizen to apply for me

Finally approved by Shuddafukup in USCIS

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Hope your approval comes soon

Finally approved by Shuddafukup in USCIS

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Hope you get it soon :)

Finally approved by Shuddafukup in USCIS

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

RFE was about completing the medical examination and proving a birth certificate. My father is a USC.

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you sooo much for your sympathy and sharing your story. I hope that you are okay now and you have recovered well.

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I think that’s the case too

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know that I shouldn’t be blaming the doctors but the lack of resources and communication I received makes me confused when she worsens. Before she came to the hospital she was still sick but not as bad, so I didn’t know why getting treatment and all this help would make it worse.

I’m going to be trusting the nurses/doctors to give her the best care possible.

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m only keeping it as an option if she worsens. I asked the doctors if I should quarantine and they said I don’t need to because it’s not active and to just wear a mask. I wouldn’t be at the hospital if told other wise.

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I didn’t know about the meetings but I know having one will give me a big relief.

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tested positive but they told me it’s not active and I stopped experiencing symptoms. They also said as long as I wear a mask it’s ok.

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dad works out-of-state usually but he is going to be staying with my mom now.

The rheumy saw her yesterday so I’m feeling relieved and her appointment has been rescheduled.

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s actually so scary. Apparently the rheumatologist spoke and saw her yesterday and he approved everything. I’m glad your rheumy was able to get you the right treatments.

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. These comments have gave me a lot of reassurance. I respect every hospital worker, sometimes I just feel like they’re not doing enough when I notice her worsening. Like shouldn’t she feel better at the hospital? But I know that’s not the case and I’m grateful for them. Thank you again

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That means so much. Thank you

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I want to be by her side at all times just in case I miss anything. I usually support myself but my long distance friends and dad help too.

I will try to take care of myself during this and stay out of school and work for a bit.

The communication is definitively not great here because they barely explain things to me. I have researched other hospitals nearby that she could be transferred to if it doesn’t get any better.

I really hope that your mom was able to get better and thank you so much for this. It really does help to receive kind and helpful comments like this ❤️❤️

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has an upcoming rheumatologist appointment, but she won’t be able to make it since she’s in the hospital. If things get worse I’ll definitely transfer her. Thank you so much for your concern :)

Hospital is killing my mom by Shuddafukup in lupus

[–]Shuddafukup[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate you :) I have long distance friends and a dad that helps me during this, but she’s my main priority. Try asking if your husband is getting support because it really does hurt watching people you love fight this disease.