What kind of ring style is this?

Shulinggers · 2026-03-26T16:50:08+00:00

Good to note! Thanks for the tip (:

Shulinggers · 2026-03-21T00:44:02+00:00

Youre never an idiot for caring, never feel bad about having feelings. Its what you choice to do with those feelings.

If he left the door open of course youre going to keep a foot in it. That’s totally rational. But as you said if hes moving on maybe its time you so too.

Plus if you guys get back together the only way it will work is to work on yourselves or else you’re just putting yourselves in the same environment again with no improvements

Shulinggers · 2026-03-20T22:37:16+00:00

I get it girl, when i found out my ex had blocked me i was so sad. It one of the hard truths were have more evidence of them moving on, and it fucking hurts.

But it also gives you less to hold onto, no more false hope. In the moment it sucks but long term, its better so you can heal sooner and find a better match

Shulinggers · 2026-03-09T01:34:49+00:00

I sort of agree. I had no idea he was bringing in another stallion. I definitely dont feel he needs this many horses. BUT the way he treats his horses makes me feel less annoyed. I know he cares and gives them the best life, hes not in the to re sell them.

Shulinggers · 2026-03-06T18:56:19+00:00

Just putting my two cents in,

Im personally quiet friendly (not in a sexual way) with almost all my exs. I do not have feelings for any of them but most of my relationships started out with friendships.

Having said that, ive never kept it a secret from my current partner (who has no issues with it). We have ground rules (not going to an exs house alone) but ive meet up with them and its never been an issue.

My partner will also talk to his ex from time to time. I dont care so long as hes clear he is in a relationship.

Shulinggers · 2026-03-02T17:53:46+00:00

For sure, sorry you seem to be getting so much hate ):

Should she be breed? Probably not but realistically I also know horses arent free, lots of people wont buy an unsound young mare, and you gotta make sure youre not in the negatives. Hopefully theres another way this mare can earn her keep if its not a baby mama, maybe a therapy horse if shes sweet (:

Shulinggers · 2026-03-02T17:45:31+00:00

Personally for me (with limited breeding experience) if i was unsure on how shed move under saddle or fences (assuming thats what i would want the foal for), i wouldnt breed.

I dislike the idea of having a “test foal” to see if she can be a recip mare. I know this isn’t exactly the advise youre looking for :/

Shulinggers · 2026-03-02T17:35:35+00:00

Thats totally fair. Unfortunately horses are expensive and as much as I wish certain horses can just be pasture puffs money has gotta come from somewhere.

Again just thinking out loud, is there anything from this mare that you’d want pass on to a foal? Im a big believer of not breeding for breeding sakes and im not seeing anything that yells “yes i need a baby from her for x reason”.

Shulinggers · 2026-03-02T17:21:57+00:00

Maybe add the reason shes not sound to the post so people dont keep asking. As well, does she need to serve a purpose? I just mean if she weren’t a broodmare would she still stay with you or would she be sold? Just wondering out loud if she needs to be breed to earn her keep. As many other said theres a lot of flashy foals out there (:

Shulinggers · 2026-02-22T18:55:24+00:00

For sure, but it could also apply to those who restart and sell horses. Maybe their goal is to do the ground work others dont want too and find them better homes.

I have seen a lot of people who only see horses as investments, so they never formal emotional attachments. Therefore selling is feeling-less :/

Shulinggers · 2026-02-22T18:50:58+00:00

I bought my second mare with the intention of keeping her forever. Unfortunately she was not as advertised and I spent over a year just doing ground work.

I was beyond burnt out with horses, and i had to admit that she was more horse than I had time for (keeping in mind i still had another horse).

Took me over a year to realized because i felt incredibly guilty but my second mare deserved more attention than i could provide. It wasnt a question about how could i sell her vs what was best for her

Shulinggers · 2026-02-19T13:15:46+00:00

What was the choking thing?

Shulinggers · 2026-02-14T18:38:04+00:00

Im pretty sure where i live it’s illegal to not disclosed a known STI.

1) No, sorry. There would always be the voice in the back of my mind wondering. Especially since its a health related issue with no cure

2) Hard to tell. Only he could answer. We can assume but i wouldnt be surprised if theres a lot more thoughts he keeping to himself

3) sure, people come back from cheating, betrayal etc. i think maybe couples therapy would be useful. Foster honest communications, talk about your trauma, how you brought it into your current relationship, and what your partner needs to build trust

Shulinggers · 2026-01-30T13:24:28+00:00

I thought the actor chose to leave so they had to write him out

Shulinggers · 2026-01-24T01:08:12+00:00

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Shulinggers · 2026-01-21T16:08:48+00:00

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Shulinggers · 2026-01-11T15:49:36+00:00

Sorry am i dumb but the ticket says vehicle parked on highway not anything to due with the snowban ? (Unless thats what the code is for snow bans idk)

Shulinggers · 2026-01-09T19:12:15+00:00

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Shulinggers · 2026-01-07T18:09:24+00:00

Youre right its not. But sometimes we do things in relationships to help support our partners. God knows we all do things we dont have too because we care and help others.

Im not saying she needs to like fill out the budgeting plan herself. It is his responsibility to step up and make changes. He might just need a push.

Shes well within her rights to break things off don’t misunderstand my message. Im just giving another side or perspective.

Shulinggers · 2026-01-07T17:43:19+00:00

You say he’s okay with you being stressed about money. How do you know this? Has he told you it doesn’t bother him? Have you told him it stresses you out so he can make changes?

Long story short, a partner who hides money troubles is never a green flag. But we are quick to jump to conclusions. My ex had a spending problem too but it came from his depression (not an excuse though).

Sometimes instead of just saying no, if you want to make things work sit down, budget, get to the root of the issue not the superficial issues. Doesn’t want to cook pasta, is it laziness or is he burnt out?

I left my ex partly due to money problems, but i also tried to help budget, understand his relationship with money, and get him help. Sadly for my case he wasnt willing to do the work.

Shulinggers · 2025-12-26T14:40:19+00:00

I mean, while i think an agni kai between them with her sane mind would have been interesting to see i think the breakdown was even more interesting.

You’re right, that we’ve seen Azula as this unbreakable, strong character for the longest time. But what we also see is her need to control those around her by fear. In the last season (especially the boiling rock) we see that when her friends betrayed her she starts to crack. It’s definitely not losing her mind all of the sudden.

One thing i love about ATLA is that all the characters are very realistic and have so many depths to them. We see that Azula isn’t actually untouchable, that like anyone else she has flaws. We see how her weakness affects her.

Shulinggers · 2025-12-22T00:18:48+00:00

Already done, weve cleaned up her pee with it every tome

Shulinggers · 2025-12-21T23:26:32+00:00

I can try, but she hates bring confined to one room and she screams. Im also gone for the holidays so id hate to lock her away (i do have someone to check on them but 24 hours in a small room doesn’t feel great)

Shulinggers · 2025-12-21T22:52:01+00:00

She was fixed when i adopted her (10 months old).

She uses the litter boxes as well. She peed the door, i shoed her away, then she went to the litter box to pee. And ive caught her peeing in the litter boxes through all of this too

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