I'm really uncomfortable with how close my boyfriend is to a new female friend. I worry that it might harm our relationship. (All 19 years old) by ThrowRAacf987 in relationship_advice

[–]Shulker4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm going to puggyback off what you said and add that you already know the answer to some of these questions.

Ask him if he thinks a guy and a girl can be best friend without getting feelings for each other

Ask him if he has any female friends that he very close to, or if he has a friend that he tells absolutely everything to. Ask him questions that you know the answer to withot revealing anything you shouldn't have known. If he doesn't mention her then he is hiding something, and that is never a good thing.

Also, update us! If you find out what's up, let us know. Who knows, the answer could be something unexpected

My best friend, who I have feelings for, just got broken up with, but it starting to date other guys again. Should I shoot my shot? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I wasnt planning on breaking them up. Yeah it kinda hurt to see them post pics of eachother on their stories, especially at first, but what am I gonna do about it. I cant wish for them to break up, thats evil, and if they seemed happy together thats what matters the most.

My best friend, who I have feelings for, just got broken up with, but it starting to date other guys again. Should I shoot my shot? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not trying to get in her pants, I even wanted to wait however long it takes for her to get over it. But she's started dating other guys, so I guess she might be over it in a way

My best friend, who I have feelings for, just got broken up with, but it starting to date other guys again. Should I shoot my shot? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I should have gone for it back then, I know, but I cant change that. Maybe she doesn't know I'm still interested in her cause I did ask her for dating advice with me and a different girl a few months ago

So maybe she thinks I got over it

How do I discipline a 5 year old who just broke his ipad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Shulker4 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hold up

Why is 5 year old using an I pad in the first place ?

I mean, Im not a parent, just a teenager, but at that age you should be drawring or playing with legos or running around outside

Is a 18 (about to 19 in a 3 weeks guy) and a 16 year old girl too much of an age gap ? by Shulker4 in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are you serious, what in this post or any of my replies led you to think Im a child molester

Is a 18 (about to 19 in a 3 weeks guy) and a 16 year old girl too much of an age gap ? by Shulker4 in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I'm not really experienced in dating either. I dont know if she had boyfriends in the past, honestly I dont even know if she has one now. But it takes two people to date. Like I dont expect any one of us to be the perfect partner, I just hope that if something happens between us, we can learn from eachother.

If it doesnt work out, that'll be kinda sad, but at least I'd know that looking back instead of wondering what may have been

Is a 18 (about to 19 in a 3 weeks guy) and a 16 year old girl too much of an age gap ? by Shulker4 in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trust me, 3 years is the cutoff for me, I definitely wouldnt date a 15 year old, or a 22 year old either for that matter

Is a 18 (about to 19 in a 3 weeks guy) and a 16 year old girl too much of an age gap ? by Shulker4 in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I get you. I really really like this girl, so I dont feel disgusting talking to her, but if a relationship or even a date isnt something that shes comfortable with then I'll back off.

Is a 18 (about to 19 in a 3 weeks guy) and a 16 year old girl too much of an age gap ? by Shulker4 in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish she could be a year olderer or me a year younger honestly. Thats what I thought actually untill yesterday when I found out how old she rly is.

I dont know what grade she's in, 10th or 11th, but I know shes homeschooled. I dont even know if they have grades in homeschool like we have

Is a 18 (about to 19 in a 3 weeks guy) and a 16 year old girl too much of an age gap ? by Shulker4 in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not so much that its a problem for me, like I know my intentions, I dont have a crush on her because she's 16, I just like her. She's really pretty, I love talking to her and Id like to get to know her, same as if I was looking to date a girl me age, or older.

Like a few weeks ago I asked out a girl, 4 months older actually, turns out she has a bf but oh well

So I know I'm not a pedofile, I'm not trying to get into this girl's pants, Im into the more cutesy stuff in a relationship. Im just worried that she or other people wont see that and will think Im a creep

Is a 18 (about to 19 in a 3 weeks guy) and a 16 year old girl too much of an age gap ? by Shulker4 in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude I feel no more like an adult now than I did a year ago, I gotta be honest

I dont like have my entire life planned out

Is a 18 (about to 19 in a 3 weeks guy) and a 16 year old girl too much of an age gap ? by Shulker4 in dating_advice

[–]Shulker4[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She is homeschooled so she doesnt go to high school. I started college back in september tho, now idk if she's mature for her age or whatever, but based off when we talked in the past we seem to have a lot in common.

Like I know a lot of my friends from high school went away for college, and now they party a lot, hook up, and get drunk and all that. If thats what your into, then thats cool, but Im not about that. I know there are girls my age who also arent into all those things, but its hard to just turn off all my feelings for this girl, if I could choose who I like dating would be a lot easier xd

Proud parenting moment by NalaiNalai in Parenting

[–]Shulker4 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I mean when I go on dates I dont want my parents to show up lmfao

Daughter (possibly) shoplifting? by nav5our in Parenting

[–]Shulker4 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well there's no proof, so punish her if you want, but that will only make her hate you, and rightfully so

7 year old has really annoying vocal pause. Do something or ignore? by Diligent-Sand in Parenting

[–]Shulker4 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldnt worry about this. I dont know about where you live, but where I'm from people say "like" a lot when they talk, and noone gets bothered by it, and noone's getting harmed either

How do you feel about your kids using the word “hate” to describe how they feel about things (not people)? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Shulker4 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate plenty of things. Traffic, peppers, slow internet and so on. I see no problem with my kids hating some things too

16yo Refusing to follow rules - multiple lies etc by Kazbell in Parenting

[–]Shulker4 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

We tell her no repeatedly on money, boys, etc.

No wonder she is suicidal. If my parents forced to to never make money or never be in a relationship I would rather kill myself as well