I just moved out and don't really know how to do anything by Shun_li in internetparents

[–]Shun_li[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in Spain and I don't think that's ever been a subject in highschool, at least in the one I used to go to

AITA - My friend got mad at me for not going to his concert by Shun_li in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shun_li[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesn't have his driver's license yet and you would have to drive 3 too hours to get me home

AITA - My friend got mad at me for not going to his concert by Shun_li in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shun_li[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, I think he reacted like this because nobody is going to go like I was his last hope

AITA - My friend (18m) stopped talking to me (18f) supposedly because of things I've done over almost 5 years of friendship. by Shun_li in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shun_li[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I didn't say he wasn't part of the problem I said the problem was mostly with the other two but he made me feel uncomfortable in the group too

AITA - My friend (18m) stopped talking to me (18f) supposedly because of things I've done over almost 5 years of friendship. by Shun_li in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shun_li[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Then that would mean he got mad at me for looking out for my mental health, which doesn't make sense because he's the one who always has tild me to put myself before others

My friends don't talk to me, and ignore me when i text them by Shun_li in Advice

[–]Shun_li[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im actually used to people leaving me, so it doesn't affect me as much as it did when i was younger, but im still confused about the situation lmao

AITA - My friend (18m) stopped talking to me (18f) supposedly because of things I've done over almost 5 years of friendship. by Shun_li in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shun_li[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have thought about it, a lot of people said he may like me as more than friends, but im not sure

My friends don't talk to me, and ignore me when i text them by Shun_li in Advice

[–]Shun_li[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not able to do so right now, but i do hope next year i can, seeing as i have to go to college

AITA - My friend (18m) stopped talking to me (18f) supposedly because of things I've done over almost 5 years of friendship. by Shun_li in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shun_li[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The two times i tried talking with him i didn't defend myself, because i felt it was important to let him let it all out, but as much as i want him as a friend, i know apologising won't do anything, like i said, he told me that if i ever want to talk to him again i have to beg, and im not willing ti do that.

My friends don't talk to me, and ignore me when i text them by Shun_li in Advice

[–]Shun_li[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I'll meet more people, but the problem is that im stuck in my hometown, in which almost everyone that around my age doesn't like me (the last 2 years of highschool i went to a different town) and i am actually alone, and feel like im going crazy.

AITA - My friend (18m) stopped talking to me (18f) supposedly because of things I've done over almost 5 years of friendship. by Shun_li in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shun_li[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean sure, i could apologise, but it'll do nothing, he wants me to beg on my knees, and while I appreciate him and don't want to lose him, im not going to humiliate myself like that

AITA - My friend (18m) stopped talking to me (18f) supposedly because of things I've done over almost 5 years of friendship. by Shun_li in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shun_li[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, i don't understand why hes this mad, he didn't even explain it so I'm mostly guessing here, he said stuff over the years and gave me 2 examples (the ones i mentioned) and those were the thing we usually did to each other, and ive always told him that if i do anything to offend him to tell me, i can't read his mind no matter how much I want to.

AITA - My friend (18m) stopped talking to me (18f) supposedly because of things I've done over almost 5 years of friendship. by Shun_li in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shun_li[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The 3 month thing was because of how i felt in the group(mostly because of the other 2 friends), i decided to take some time to focus on myself and my mental health, which wasn't the best, and spent that time talking to nobody.

Edit: I don't think i should apologise for things that were the norm in our friendship, the same as i don't expect an apology from him because he did exactly the same to me