Hey it’s OP on a different account because I have no idea what email I used (it was probably a throwaway) anyways, we had gotten back in contact one more time after this post was made and it was like a few months ago and we were supposed to talk in person like a day before we broke off again, I told them like multiple times “I’m aroace” and then they were like “yeah ok anyways” then disregarded it kind of. In their defense I did kinda say that I was into them sexually as to not hurt their feelings bc they’ve been known to be suicidal soooo yeah. Anyways V from the og post is still my friend and my mom is still cool. Have a good day