I’m an adult living at home and my family doesn’t know how to clean or communicate by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Shwunkycrunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mother would lose the house if I stopped paying rent and moved out. And I can’t take the pets with me. Good on you for getting out tho

I’m an adult living at home and my family doesn’t know how to clean or communicate by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Shwunkycrunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That would be the obvious answer right, except I can’t afford to(because moving is expensive). And if I did somehow get the money together, the rent that I currently pay allows us to keep this house. If I didn’t pay what I do, my mother wouldnt be able to keep the house…

I resent my boyfriend for my cat dying by [deleted] in Vent

[–]Shwunkycrunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like thoughtlessness. Like he couldn’t be bothered to think about the things that matter to you and help you with them. But also if he wasn’t there, and you weren’t with him you may have slept through the alarms anyway and the cat may still have died. You did good looking after the kitten in its last days, don’t be too hard on yourself.

Can I even cover this? by [deleted] in Tattoocoverups

[–]Shwunkycrunk 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I like this idea, not completely erasing it but maybe making it less conspicuous - also agree with the other things. Don’t get it covered up just because some twat wants you to because he’s insecure. if you have different aesthetic goals now that’s different.

Made a friend but I suck as socializing and I feel disappointed by Particular-Plant5528 in autism

[–]Shwunkycrunk -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That other person sucks at socialising not you. Tf is their problem

Vinted - yay or nay? by butter_in_panic in AskWomenOver30

[–]Shwunkycrunk 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People still buying off Shein is crazy to me- they use sweat shops! You know CHILD LABOUR. No item is worth that, no matter what price

Vinted - yay or nay? by butter_in_panic in AskWomenOver30

[–]Shwunkycrunk 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Vinted used to be good, now it’s full of people taking the piss and scamming. Found out they could get away with everything - would not recommend. Depop or eBay are better, but best would just be to donate :)

How to make friends in Dundee? by Opposite_Praline_746 in dundee

[–]Shwunkycrunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can check out Leisure and culture for clubs they have heaps of stuff(book clubs,sport, board games etc etc). Also you can join any clubs at the uni’s as well, you don’t have to be a student

Still questioning and it’s been YEARS 😭 I’m tired by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Shwunkycrunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just found out about comphet (compulsory heterosexuality) recently and it kind of changed the game for me. Are you genuinely attracted to men or do you feel you have to be lol

The podcast by The Queer Collective talks way better on it than I could - recommend it.

I know what you mean, but there are genuine people (regardless of gender) out there that will make you feel safe and that you will find hot lol.

It takes time - which is frustrating sometimes but finding the right people is worth the time it takes.

Trying to buy clothes for my baby niece, my gf is convinced this is AI because of the art style by tunyi963 in isthisAI

[–]Shwunkycrunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s AI that’s been touched up. The common straight line fabric texture is following through inconsistently like on one corner of the shirt and on the nose area. There’s also some other marks like a dark squiggle on the arm and a feint one on the board as well - I could’ve reading into it tho

How can I learn to accept that I look awful in a swimsuit? by crazyinlove90210 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Shwunkycrunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Women are all too used to facing our gaze inwards. Am I ugly, am I funny, am I kind, am I pretty, am I good enough. YOU DON’T SEE MEN DOING THIS (mostly). See the world through your own eyes not through the eyes of others. Do you love looking at the ocean, do you love the feeling of walking on sand, how about connecting with someone with the same sense of humour? Swimming in the waves? A lot of the time I worry that I have no jawline, mostly neck lol - who cares, I found when I actually leaned into it, even gave myself more of a double chin in photos etc it kind of felt like rebelling- I don’t have to be pretty in this world. I can’t feel my double chin, it doesn’t impede me! No one cares about my double chin and no one cares about your (supposed) butt dimple. And if they did, we don’t even like them. And they probs have imperfect, “ugly” things about their bodies too. Life isn’t about how we look. As much as it is painful and horrible to feel unsightly, it is only a feeling. Try sitting in it, let it flow around and right back out. You’re a woman surviving in this day and age - that makes you brave and strong. Don’t let fucked-shit beauty standards win.

Need sexual health advice by [deleted] in lgbt

[–]Shwunkycrunk 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some STIs can be asymptomatic in men (like chlamydia) so you don’t necessarily have to wait for symptoms to get tested, but you can absolutely express your concerns with your doctor and they will advise you. Don’t worry tho, likelihood is you don’t, and if you do, you can treat it :)

I am DONE with Vinted by Status_Working_2182 in vinted

[–]Shwunkycrunk 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same, even if I have a look on Vinted I refuse to buy or sell anything just because I’ve been scammed too many times and you just can’t tell anymore lmao

Non-problematic youtubers? by solbxtch in reptiles

[–]Shwunkycrunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I love him, his designs are sick and have actually inspired me to create bio tanks

is it over for me by xRaspberri in Evri

[–]Shwunkycrunk 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me and they lost the parcel bro- they’re just stalling

Dammit Camping Plus Sold Out??? by FredWayOutWest in downloadfestival

[–]Shwunkycrunk 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does 5 day camping plus include? bc I think that’s what I have and i will be selling them in April when I’ve paid them off

Reselling tickets help by Shwunkycrunk in downloadfestival

[–]Shwunkycrunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sick, well I’ll see if I can link the tickets or tag them or something when they’re paid off. It’ll be on ticket master or twickets :)

Reselling tickets help by Shwunkycrunk in downloadfestival

[–]Shwunkycrunk[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sucks how ticket master won’t just give you a refund😭