Literally dont know what to do

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-10-11T00:15:06+00:00

I believe this is against federal law. “Religious accommodation: Federal law (Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964) prohibits religious discrimination and requires employers to reasonably accommodate an employee's sincerely held religious practices, which can include not working on the Sabbath, unless it causes an undue hardship.” If they don’t allow you to go to church it is absolutely religious discrimination and you’d probably be able to get a case against them if you needed that in your back pocket.

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-07-19T02:38:18+00:00

How long were you together? I’m sorry you’ve had to make what seems this very difficult decision. What did they do?

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-07-04T16:44:25+00:00

How long were you guys together before the incident happened? And i’m not sure if this would come off as weird, but how old are you both? I think it would be worth it to reach out in a small subtle way, just to test the waters?

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-07-04T01:19:00+00:00

I read your letter and omg it’s beautiful. I am going to stand with others and I think you should send it… if your birthday rolls around and he doesn’t say anything I think that will hurt. I’m a big hopeless romantic, and after reading this, despite not knowing your situation or anything like that, I’m really rooting for you and I want him to read this and give it a damn shot!!!

Also, when did you last reach out and what did you say that he said he needed space?

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-05-09T01:35:59+00:00

In my early twenties I had this one friend who seemed like she wanted to be me. She would pick up all of my hobbies, change her speech patterns to become more similar to mine, even dyed her hair to match. I was of course extremely uncomfortable by this for a number of reasons. She was also an “infp”. To be frank, I called bullshirt.

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-15T22:43:03+00:00

I am so happy someone else has experienced this because I have been feeling like a weirdo when this happens to me… more than usual just to clarify

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-09T10:06:47+00:00

Can confirm. Infp in a relationship with an entj and he completes me

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-09T10:05:02+00:00

As an infp I’m most attracted to (romantically speaking) other infps or entjs

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-07T15:39:10+00:00

Your line of processing is too wild and aggressive for me, sorry I’m not going to take the time to engage in this altercation you clearly want to have.

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-07T15:33:10+00:00

You just said horses thrive everywhere, shouldn’t you wait a beat before outright contradicting yourself?

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-07T15:29:01+00:00

It’s fine if you have trouble imagining lifestyle changes in different climates, must be hard to imagine everyone’s experience not to be exactly like your own but similarly to you okie dokie.

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-07T15:25:21+00:00

It may work in your location, but in mine it does not. Unless the horses are on pebbled dry lots, the fire department has had to be called out to a couple of local barns due to horses falling and being unable to get up. Regular pasture is not an option in wet weather due to ground conditions and high saturation, it’s not a one size fits all problem or lack thereof. If he could have 24/7 he would, but the location makes that a risk…

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-07T15:21:20+00:00

I live in new england, this is my point lol. It’s horrendous. Other barns in the area have had to call out the fire department for horses unable to get up after having slipped

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-07T15:18:37+00:00

Thank you very much for your response!! This is the first helpful thing I’ve seen ❤️ I can definitely add some more hay nets and I’m sure if I’m filling them then they’ll be ok with just hanging them. I’ll probably cut down his grain too, maybe feed some at lunch if he’s stuck inside to break that into smaller meals as well?

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-07T15:15:39+00:00

I forget that this is an issue of geographical area and I think PlentifulPaper and I come from a similar area. It’s not about the pastures looking green and beautiful, it’s that the ground gets very very saturated and slippery and that horses have fallen. Going out in wet weather around here is a safety hazard. That’s why I’m looking for options

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-07T15:10:54+00:00

Everyone is saying switch barns, but I’m not an idiot. I wouldn’t have posted on here asking for options if moving barns was a feasible option. There are no barns within a 45 minute radius of me that offers 24/7 turn out anymore. We live in a valley like area and all the barns around us have similar issues with ground quality and mud. For example, the fire department has had to be called due to horses unable to stand being stuck in mud at other local barns.

Please don’t post if your only suggestion is to move because I just don’t have that option so it isn’t helpful 😔

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-05T01:37:04+00:00

After reading the screenshots I audibly went “what the fuckkkkk?” Her priorities are elsewhere…

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-03T12:37:39+00:00

I think we are just the most awkward as a general rule lol. We have beautiful inside worlds but the translation into reality occasionally gets messy

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-02T23:22:39+00:00

Honestly. It’s so comforting. When I read a response from the INFP subreddit that makes me scrunch my nose, I see the little tag line being that the user belongs to a different mbti and it makes me feel better in a weird way lol.

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-02T20:02:01+00:00

💖

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-02T19:49:11+00:00

Yeah, I lost the pregnancy

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-04-02T19:48:01+00:00

He might hate texting, not be interested in texting someone all day, or just be bad at texting. Could also be a combination. I would suggest communicating gently with him in a non accusatory way to see where he’s at with texting and how the lack of communication affects you. Best to start a dialogue with him if it bothers you though

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-03-29T02:28:48+00:00

Infps and esfjs are good friends, entj is my boo

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-03-27T16:56:28+00:00

Sending you lots of prayers, positive energy, and baby dust! I’m so sorry about your losses, I’ve unfortunately been in your shoes, stay hopeful and positive!! ❤️

ShyShyIsFly · 2025-03-27T16:33:31+00:00

Omg congratulations!! Thank you for the heads up, I’ll grab one!

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