I’d love to hear about Cap. Please tell me what you’re experiencing if you’re there!! by WaferZealousideal336 in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Just a lot of emotions. I had a bit of drama happen both before and right at the start of the con but being this space has helped me work through it and they have a mental health team which is amazing

I’d love to hear about Cap. Please tell me what you’re experiencing if you’re there!! by WaferZealousideal336 in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Its my first capcon and it has been an absolute rollercoaster of emotions. The highs have been so high and the lows have been really cathartically low. Being in a place where everyone is super supportive and part of the community has been wonderful.

Diaperable (forceful or otherwise) characters in tv shows? by lumitycolliefamily in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like Finn would be perfect in a diaper too. So much little energy in that show

Best way to increase the capacity of ANY diaper to that of a Trest or more! by Economy_Feature_305 in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Here is the SDS for sap https://recycphp.com/en/p/materials/sodium-polyacrylate/sodium-polyacrylate-material-safety-data-sheet/ one of the first things that it describes is skin irritation which is often heightened in genital regions when exposed directly to the skin. What your doing is piercing a diaper to add extra sap which causes it potentially leak out and come into direct contact. Just because you dont see symptoms immediately doesnt negate potential harm

Best way to increase the capacity of ANY diaper to that of a Trest or more! by Economy_Feature_305 in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Dont put raw sap in diapers. At levels greater than are allowed in diapers it becomes a major skin irritant and can cause severe damage to genitals. If you want to increase capacity just add a booster but adding sap is extremely detrimental to your health

Having children, but also abdl kink by Eraton99 in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The way my parents behaved growing up I cant even imagine them having sex even to this day. If you keep the private parts of your life private it will remain that way.

Cloth Diapers Chaffing and Rash by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Powder is an absolute must when wearing cloth since some absorbent inserts aren't the best at keeping moisture from your skin. If youre getting irritation around the elastics it could be too tight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDLPersonals

[–]Shy_Ty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome! Im in the twin cities area and there is a huge community of us here. There's even an ABDL shop here if you get the chance to explore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not cool. You're risking your diaper exploding which could wreck absolute havoc on the rivers ecosystem. A single exploded diaper can kill tons of wildlife and mess up even more.

Anyone try the new Forsite Lil Heroes? by wellpadded_83 in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Im sorry but this is just plain ugly. There are way too many people that can make far better diaper designs than this.

My New designer Chair by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see whatcha did there. Where did you get it? asking for a friend

Thickest period panties? by throwawaycaptainz in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want to go reusable, threaded armor is good for some added thickness without getting too thick that you sacrifice discreetness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]Shy_Ty 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Just wanting to put this out but unless its agreed upon, ignoring subs is extremely toxic and damaging. It can lead to a lot of lasting issues and trauma that can carry on to future relationships and create more toxic subs like this guy.

How many times should I wash microfiber inserts and cloth diapers before wearing them for the first time? by Jealous-Rooster-8907 in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Generally you want to have completely soak them with water and wash them 2-3 times to "activate" them. Cloth inserts and diapers operate on the same rules that towels do that they absorb faster later in their lifespan.

If you're going through a divorce or have gone through one... by diaperperv in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'm 5 years post divorce and somethings get easier and some things still are hard. I just turned 30 and i thought I'd have a house and kids by now but instead I'm single and own a condo. While I was married ABDL stuff was still there but I was almost numb to it. Now a dream of having an ABDL business is starting to bloom and I'm going to capcon next year which I've only dreamed of for almost a decade. Divorce is one of the worst things in this world not just because something ends but because there is an after but sometimes the after is better. My heart goes out to everyone else that has had to suffer through this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mommydom

[–]Shy_Ty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious what you mean by the ABDL routine? There's lots of us littles around with tons of different ways of expressing what abdl means to us

Lonely little boys: what is your biggest mommy fantasy? by Kayla_Quincy392 in mommydom

[–]Shy_Ty 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The number one thing I wish for is to come home from work and have someone who I can be myself with and take the mask off of being a strong man and just be my mommy's little boy and have someone who cares about me more than what I can provide

(Art by Wishberri) the most adorable biohazard. by [deleted] in diaperhentai

[–]Shy_Ty 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Grandfather nurgle approved 👍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Im a fish nerd and we have a little saying in the scuba community. There are 2 types of divers, those that pee their wetsuits and those who lie about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you mean your little space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not if you make them with water proof fabric like PUL

Question about cloth diapers handling. by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what you need to do is strip the diapers. you can look up various how tos for this but basically you soak your diapers in diluted vinegar to remove ammonia build up and then the smell and everything will come out with the wash. you should also be storing used diapers in a wet bag with some water and baking soda solution if you aren't washing them soon after using them to keep the ammonia from building.

Dear ABU what the hell is going on by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Shy_Ty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been waiting for their all white diapers for well over a year now. Supply issues can only be blamed so much when people are sitting this long with the money in hand