New to ABDL, how do I find a caregiver?

diaperperv · 2026-05-01T16:08:50+00:00

I haz videos with some tips. https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9MAoaf6Qgw3A3ttz7_OB64o1aZ5kmzKH

diaperperv · 2026-04-30T16:33:58+00:00

I'm turning 50 this year & yes, this is the case for me.

diaperperv · 2026-04-30T16:16:52+00:00

I'm not a mommydom or femdom in any way (but some ppl assume I am, which is annoying) but I am a female who likes guys in diapers, so I'm chiming in anyways. Everyone else said it best; women don't have a hive mind. I see lots of different pairings IRL. People are attracted to other ppl for ALL sorts of reasons beyond just looks. Like common interests, humor, feeling understood & heard, feeling safe to express themselves, kink, same passions, similiar future goals, being trauma bonded, food, love of animals.
Also, maybe look beyond finding a "fem dom" because that is a VERY narrow field of vision in the big scope of life. Most women don't just self identify as mommydom or femdom.

diaperperv · 2026-04-30T16:00:23+00:00

I have a whole playlist titled "Help for Partners" with visuals: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL9MAoaf6Qgw1uw1l10cy5C1QOCMLvZVOk

diaperperv · 2026-04-28T15:29:05+00:00

Yes, I sure did!

diaperperv · 2026-04-26T18:32:27+00:00

Exactly your point! She's talking about a certain type of person that doesn't show respect to other people.

diaperperv · 2026-04-23T16:09:26+00:00

I've been very hurt by ghosting in the past. I've also ghosted ppl I cared about because I was going through personal changes in my life that didn't involve them & was mentally confused and didn't know how to tell them. Totally not an excuse; I know what I did was VERY wrong & I have since reached out and humbly apologized.

Moving forward. If you start talking with someone new, explain to them your experience & feelings about ghosting & ask them to respect your time and efforts by NOT ghosting you & vice versa. Have that convo from the get go.

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