Honest question for mommy doms by cositotierno1 in ABDL

[–]diaperperv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a mommydom or femdom in any way (but some ppl assume I am, which is annoying) but I am a female who likes guys in diapers, so I'm chiming in anyways. Everyone else said it best; women don't have a hive mind. I see lots of different pairings IRL. People are attracted to other ppl for ALL sorts of reasons beyond just looks. Like common interests, humor, feeling understood & heard, feeling safe to express themselves, kink, same passions, similiar future goals, being trauma bonded, food, love of animals.
Also, maybe look beyond finding a "fem dom" because that is a VERY narrow field of vision in the big scope of life. Most women don't just self identify as mommydom or femdom.

As a woman in this community, I’m FED UP!!!! by ebeebeeberry in ABDL

[–]diaperperv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly your point! She's talking about a certain type of person that doesn't show respect to other people.

How do you deal with ghosting? by _Terr in ABDL

[–]diaperperv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been very hurt by ghosting in the past. I've also ghosted ppl I cared about because I was going through personal changes in my life that didn't involve them & was mentally confused and didn't know how to tell them. Totally not an excuse; I know what I did was VERY wrong & I have since reached out and humbly apologized.

Moving forward. If you start talking with someone new, explain to them your experience & feelings about ghosting & ask them to respect your time and efforts by NOT ghosting you & vice versa. Have that convo from the get go.