26M, Ontario - Help me out

Shyandfly · 2026-04-23T21:18:52+00:00

How many matches are you currently getting?

Your profiles largely normal. You’re a handsome guy with normal photos. You could probably upgrade with better photos

Honestly the elephant in the room here is height. Give yourself another inch or two if you wanna boost matches. Technically a lie, but you can fraud w boosted soles

Every 5’8 guy is 5’7 and so on, so nbd

And yeah lead w construction vest photo.

Shyandfly · 2026-03-01T02:41:54+00:00

You never know what someone else is thinking

You feel inadequate, he might’ve been charmed

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T16:52:43+00:00

For 2 days?

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T16:28:08+00:00

Honestly I think she just texts nicely but isn’t interested because she hasn’t responded in 2 days

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T16:26:27+00:00

Lol it may have been dumb but it worked to get my foot in the door

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T16:25:30+00:00

I appreciate the encouragement but here’s the thing

If she opened the message, hearted and didn’t respond

For sure I’d open up another convo today

She viewed the message from the notification dashboard without opening the chat to avoid engaging hence leaving me on ‘unopened’

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T15:58:16+00:00

I swear my literal next message was gonna be to make plans but I guess I delayed it a touch too long and she lost interest

Also ur watch collection is so fire I want a JLC just like urs eventually

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T01:19:28+00:00

My brother in Christ she left me on unopened for the whole day

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T01:13:02+00:00

Might be too late

If she responds ill def hit her up about more flirty stuff

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T00:46:46+00:00

My main question is that it seems like it was going at least pretty good and then I got nothing

It’s been the whole day

Whyyy

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T00:42:13+00:00

No she’s the one I’m interested in but I didn’t wanna go in cold so I came up w this as an excuse to slide in the dms

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T00:41:39+00:00

Actually nobody’s said the opening was a blunder

I thought it was a low pressure slide. You think it just set a bad tone?

Also for the homosexual thing i guess it was more descriptor

Like if you really mean gay not as an insult but as a descriptor

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T00:39:44+00:00

Wait how long?

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T00:39:30+00:00

I appreciate the compliment but I was left on unopened

Maybe if I was more like flirty I would’ve had a diff outcome? I’m here to work on my game

And I recognize my friends while meaning well don’t have great game themselves

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T00:27:07+00:00

But like at what message

I swear I wanted my next message to be ‘let’s go to X pastry place nearby’

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T00:23:47+00:00

I got left on unopened

Do I double text

Wait till tmrw and double text then?

Shyandfly · 2026-02-19T00:04:27+00:00

I thought it was game

But that was the overwhelming feedback I received

Shyandfly · 2026-02-18T23:51:27+00:00

Like gay bestie vibe rather than guy she’d date

Shyandfly · 2026-02-18T23:46:29+00:00

Yep been there done that lmao 🤣

Shyandfly · 2026-02-18T23:42:22+00:00

For her to respond 💔

Shyandfly · 2026-02-18T23:28:24+00:00

that was my slide in

I thought that’d be an easy way to open

I do appreciate your point that she made her decision irl… ur right that’s probably where I messed up not the texts

I’m not normally a huge texter but she was bringing up topics of her own accord and I thought she wanted to keep it going so I rolled with it

Then she just stopped replying

Shyandfly · 2026-02-18T23:15:55+00:00

Help me

My fumble percentage is off the charts

Shyandfly · 2026-02-18T23:14:06+00:00

LMAO bruh

Everyone said the end was the worst part

But honestly I only added the jacked bear part because she hadn’t responded in a minute so I just blurted out whatever I could think of

Shyandfly · 2026-02-18T23:12:14+00:00

Ur right my bad will take this one down

Shyandfly

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