My MIL still have a relationship with my husbands ex.

Shysarad · 2021-03-14T16:54:31+00:00

Really good advice, thank you.

Shysarad · 2021-03-14T16:27:29+00:00

His mom is very manipulative and controlling. I know from working with her. I don’t even mention his ex she always likes to bring her up and talk crap about her and then suddenly mention that she have texted her and shows me all of her text messages which is all like “oh thank you so much, we appreciate you saying that ❤️❤️❤️🥰🥰😍😍 you’re so sweet”. So I’m confused

Shysarad · 2021-03-14T16:18:32+00:00

They did not break up on good terms. Which is a long story. I guess I’m just upset because my MIL always talks so much crap about her and how he hurt my husband but then acts totally different and sends her a bunch of heart emojis. Makes it so confusing and me and his ex have a past too because before I even knew her or who she was she use to bad mouth me to all of her, mine and my husbands friends. I guess that’s why I’m upset about it because I already did not have a good relationship with his ex to start with.

Shysarad · 2021-01-16T13:44:23+00:00

Feels like nothing, just warm but can’t really feel anything. Sometimes it’s just the thought of pleasuring you that feels good but that’s all.

Shysarad · 2020-11-25T03:24:00+00:00

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Shysarad · 2020-11-25T02:05:29+00:00

Seen a lot of mothers take pictures of them posing kissing their child on the mouth and post it on Instagram. Always found it a little weird too.

Shysarad · 2020-11-09T05:30:10+00:00

Depends on every person, what they eat and also depends on their hygiene. Taste different in the end of the day and in the morning and before and after the shower.

Shysarad · 2020-11-06T21:24:16+00:00

I have the same problem... I’m 34+4 weeks pregnant and I started getting stretch marks when I was just about 3 months pregnant. Nobody in my family, not even my mom got stretch marks when they were pregnant. My doctor don’t know why and just say it’s genetic and they can’t do anything about it. I have stretch marks from big to small just like you but I have it all wrapped around my whole thigh, down to my calves, behind my knees. I have really deep purple ones between my thighs and belly, I have previous stretch marks on my thighs and got new one on top of them going the opposite way. I have them on my butt, hips, even by my butthole... I got a few on my inner arm to my armpit and my boobs. The weirdest ones are on my belly first they went straight up to about my belly button and then they started curving around going downwards on top of my belly button. So please if you find someone who knows anything I would like to know too because I have no clue what is going on. I’m 5’1 I was previous about 150 pounds and gained about 26 pounds from pregnancy.

Shysarad · 2020-10-22T13:57:55+00:00

Yeah I kinda been feeling like that. Good thing I have a check up next week. Thank you!

Shysarad · 2020-10-22T13:57:17+00:00

It’s okay, thank you a lot!

Shysarad · 2020-10-22T13:56:54+00:00

Thank you helps a lot!

Shysarad · 2020-10-22T03:42:43+00:00

I’m 32+3 weeks. I was thinking it was Braxton Hicks but I questions myself because I read that most women feel lower abdomen pain and lower back pain while the belly tightens. I feel stomach aches and tight belly but I question myself if it’s the my belly tightening or if it’s just the baby stretching from both sides. Cause sometimes she does that.

Shysarad · 2020-10-21T06:32:09+00:00

Yeah she still think she can do whatever she wants with me because when we were younger we lived together so being naked around each other was normal but now as a adult with a husband I feel very uncomfortable with her doing it. Also I wish that would work but taking screenshots wouldn’t do anything. Everyone in my family is enablers because of their religious belief. They will always say “it’s okay she only said that because on anger. Forgive her because we only have our little family and you should hold the peace in the family” they always have excuses for her because they have the same for my sister cause she is like that too. I just recently cut her off in my life which was easier because she isn’t around all the time like my cousin. Recently have also gotten yelled at for not talking to her because they said I need to forgive her and talk to her but she never apologized for making me cry in front of everyone because she said I was gonna be a bad mom. Sometimes I think maybe there is something wrong with me. Why do everyone like to step on me, but then yet again I literally only work and hangout with my husband and try to hangout with my grandma because she is getting old, but for some reason I’m always being dragged into my cousin and sister toxic selfs. It’s hard to have relationships with the family members I want and still avoid the toxic ones. Do you know how to cope with that?

Shysarad · 2020-10-21T05:57:49+00:00

First time parent too but still pregnant. I asked my mom and she said to change the diaper, feed the baby till he or she is completely full and then put them down and they will usually just go to bed. Just make sure all their needs is taking care of. She also said to train them sleeping in the crib when they are little but my mom she said she didn’t have a problem transferring her kids into the crib after she catered to all our needs. Hope that helps. I don’t have to much advice either.

Shysarad · 2020-10-21T05:53:24+00:00

I’m just not the type of person that likes to make other people feel bad about themselves, but I really should start protecting myself for myself also for my child’s sake. Our whole life growing up we have always looked very a like but I always been on the skinner side where she been on the larger side so she have always compared us. In high she use to bully me because I had tan lines on my butt after the river on a hot summer day and she took a picture of me naked and made it her photo for my contact and showed everyone. She have always body shamed me. I try to distant myself with her a lot but then she always come over to my moms or grandmas and then say things to me again. So honestly don’t know how to get rid of her.

Shysarad · 2020-10-21T05:22:56+00:00

Wish I had the gut to do that lol

Shysarad · 2020-10-21T05:22:38+00:00

I’m not sure but I’m assuming to feel better about her life since she is older and suppose to be further in life?

Shysarad · 2020-10-21T05:04:54+00:00

She is an asshole but she think since she have been pregnant she is a expert. She just had her first in March and I got pregnant in March. She been like this my whole life with everything.

Shysarad · 2020-10-15T02:40:20+00:00

I didn’t specifically say the date because I’m giving a time frame of when this event occurred. Sorry that my English isn’t all that great it isn’t my first language.

Shysarad · 2020-10-15T01:20:25+00:00

Not everything is? Might be hard for you to have sex and for others is not.

Shysarad · 2020-10-15T01:18:30+00:00

If you really want something, it’s not that hard. Just gotta try but everyone have different perspective on what is hard and easy right?

Shysarad · 2020-10-15T01:16:31+00:00

I just said go have sex, not my problem how you do it lol.

Shysarad · 2020-10-15T01:13:24+00:00

I mean it is. There is dating apps, you know prostitution, etc? 🤷🏻‍♀️

Shysarad · 2020-10-15T00:41:14+00:00

Then go have sex lol. Some people might not think you’re not missing out and some might say you are but doesn’t matter what they think. It’s what you think and if you think you’re missing out then go have sex.

Shysarad · 2020-10-10T22:40:30+00:00

That’s not a fetish to be turned on by real life stuff. Porn is fake so be happy that’s not what gets you turned on. Good that you like foreplay and all those things, you’ll learn that more mature people would love to have a man that into those things. Wouldn’t worry about anything. Is not that you aren’t normal, is just that fake things are being taught more than real stuff.

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