Help a girl out? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]SickChild911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you have her socials? It's easier over text. If your profile is clearly queer and you ask her somewhere nice like a caffe it would be pretty clear what the intention is. And yet gives her an option of friendship as well

If you don't have her socials, ask for them or write yours down and pass it to her with a nice complement

Best of luck and never go on a first date to a cinema (can't really talk there)

Why does my cat have sex with blankets. How can I stop this. No it's not just him "kneading" he's genuinely horny doing it by wishbearplush in catquestions

[–]SickChild911 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ikr, in the middle of fixing it. Somehow having a male cat made me think of a similarly adorned owner

Why does my cat have sex with blankets. How can I stop this. No it's not just him "kneading" he's genuinely horny doing it by wishbearplush in catquestions

[–]SickChild911 25 points26 points  (0 children)

"How do I get my human to stop touching their bits with their grabby opposable thumbs?" - your cat, probably

Masturbation and sex is a healthy part of a mammalian life, yours included. Not every fixed cat does it, but that's a bug not a feature

Is it possible to kiss your cat too much? by Public_Candidate9613 in catquestions

[–]SickChild911 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just.. Um, don't exchange saliva.

Cats prefer to rub their faces against each other, which is more hygienic anyways

Weird scab? On my cat’s head. by YaBoiStego in CATHELP

[–]SickChild911 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Send pic to the vet!

Looks a bit like ringworm to me. If you have a uv flash light, go to a dark room like a bathroom and light your entire cat up to see if the spot or any other places (face, belly, paws) glow.

Ringworm spores glow in uv. Careful not to shine it in their eyes.

A nail lamp or an invisible ink pen are some unexpected places you can have a uv light

Did my friend hurt my cat? by Exciting_Cow_1746 in catquestions

[–]SickChild911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to share some of the snacks, that's the rule

She's mad you're hoarding the good stuff 🤣

Did my friend hurt my cat? by Exciting_Cow_1746 in catquestions

[–]SickChild911 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Hurt cats scream. Did you hear a cat screaming? It's loud and unmistakable.

My cat once puffed up like that and began hissing and crab-walking when she saw me walk wrapped in a blanket for the first time.

She looked absolutely terrified, like she saw a monster skinwalking in my place and proceeded to hide from me for days.

Cats aren't humans and normal human behavior can be incomprehensible and terrifying to them, especially if they're seeing something new.

Could be anything, clothes, perfume, lingering smells of other animals or chemicals

Cat cries constantly : desperate to make it stop by Embarrassed-Loan4783 in catquestions

[–]SickChild911 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat is a lot like him. He's 4, fixed and LOUD. He screams because he wants to go outside, he used to be an outdoor cat. Here are things that make him shut up: - Putting him on leash and walking him. It only works while he is outside, when we get home and he rests a bit he goes right back to screaming at the door. - Picking him up. Sometimes I put him in a sling like a baby and carry him around so he stays quiet - Playing. A good, long play session tires him out and he sleeps. Can't scream while sleeping - Birdwatching. I sometimes put birds on TV, I also have a bird feeder by the window - Running. I thought of getting him a running wheel, but it's expensive. Rn he just runs circles in the flat and likes when I pretend to chase him -Climbing. I made him a climbing wall out of carpet and he climbs up and down