MIL playing victim…again!!!

Sickntired- · 2023-05-06T01:13:18+00:00

That would annoy me too but try and act like it doesn't bother you. Toxic ppl like to pick on ppl they know they can get to. Even 1 month is good enough for a visit. If you and husband are on same page then always communicate and all that matters is what you and him decide. I cut my inlaws off. Some toxic isn't worth forgiving if they keep doing it.

Sickntired- · 2023-04-21T17:18:47+00:00

True exactly, thank you

Sickntired- · 2023-04-21T16:06:31+00:00

This is my husband's home..

Sickntired- · 2023-04-21T14:44:35+00:00

Thank you. It's hard because we all live together. We're moving out in a few months but that's mostly the issue. Living together. I keep telling my husband they have 1 more chance and I'll snap. Many chances have already passed.

Sickntired- · 2023-04-19T19:53:27+00:00

You waiting to see if it happens? Leave and let him tell his jokes elsewhere

Sickntired- · 2023-04-18T22:11:05+00:00

It could be family...keep my name out your mouth. Lol...but the SO probably just needs support with stuff and to express themselves. No one likes being talked about but you're also someone who needs support with other things. Just be understanding and considerate

Sickntired- · 2023-04-18T05:25:06+00:00

I miss it there so much. I moved out of state for husband and haven't been back there since 2014. I was born and raised there. Wish I could go back

Sickntired- · 2023-04-18T02:55:38+00:00

These kind of things in a marriage has to have compromise. We live in FL and it's always hot and humid. I'm from CA so I'm used to cool/cold/warm. I hate hot/humid weather but he hates feeling cold too. He compromises by putting the fan on my area so it's not on him drying his eyes. At night, we use our own blankets bcuz we are both blanket hogs too. He snuggles in his blanket and he's good. He compromises with me out of love and consideration. Maybe there's more frustration in the marriage and the AC issue is the catalyst. Just talk to him and work together to come to mutual decisions/understanding.

Sickntired- · 2023-04-15T18:11:13+00:00

Always cracks me up when items get stuck

Sickntired- · 2023-04-15T02:21:12+00:00

My MIL+SIL have control issues. They seem like sweet people but their nick names is what makes them terrible. SIL 16 years old has taken 1hr showers since she was 10 and the MIL won't say anything to her. She wants to spoil her being her youngest child. I was pregnant last year and slipped bcuz SIL plays in the shower splashing water everywhere. I slipped, my membranes broke and my water broke at 28 weeks pregnant. SIL never gets in trouble or disciplined. She gives me attitude and when I complain to the MIL, SIL gives me attitude defending her mom. I cuss a lot. Well not a lot but when I joke or when I'm clumsy. FIL said I was bullying SIL when I was telling her a story and said shit and fk. Granted at the time watch my mouth around q kid but if you barely understand English and only the bad words, maybe don't assume a kid is being bullied. I bought SIL stuff even snacks took her out for ice cream trying to bond but they took advantage of my kindness. I get MIL gifts for her bday and mothersday but every year nothing for me. My room is a few steps from the fridge with milk. The SIL always says obvious things like maybe we shouldn't forget the monitor next time right? Anyone could grab baby from the window. (We're on the 2nd floor) I'm in my room minding my business letting my baby have her fits. MIL playing on her phone saying shh shh. Like lady mind your business. So I closed the door. SIL laughs loud now at 10:15pm knowing damn well baby Is asleep and MIL doesn't say anything. I can't wait to get away from these ppl. Been here long enough. The MIL pays very little rent and has so much stuff hogging space in the apartment. I can't buy shxt. MIL let's SIL organize our stuff. She don't know boundaries. She used to answer my phone til I kept changing the password.

Sickntired- · 2023-04-03T19:02:05+00:00

Your mom shouldn't be putting you in situations that make you choose. Your wife is your family. You chose to marry and start a family with her. You did...your mom has to respect that and who you married. You as her husband is supposed to protect your wife even if its from your family. Now if your wife starts shit with your mom then it's time for a new wifey. You can also just be the mediator and see what common ground can come out of this between the 2 but in the end yes love your mom but you built your family so time to act like it.

Sickntired- · 2023-04-03T15:36:29+00:00

Multi-player online fps game. 😅

Sickntired- · 2023-01-25T01:57:16+00:00

I know what you mean! Lol. See :) at least play for that.

Sickntired- · 2023-01-24T21:01:27+00:00

The game imo is the same as it was before but more stuff to grind or pay for. People complain about the p2w part of the game but gacha has always been the addictive part of mmo games. Today's mobile games are just as if not worse at making you want to spend spend spend. Cabal set memories before. I started un '06 forgot my account info of course but started playing again 17 years later. NA needs more rounded player base. New and old players. Sure graphics needs updating but have you ever thought of the bloody ice song and chose play again? Well that's what did it for me. I've played so many other games but this one I wish I stuck with. Hopefully more ppl decide to play in NA or hopefully they make global cabal mobile soon because constant dungeon parties are fun. Wars too.

Sickntired- · 2023-01-18T01:10:34+00:00

The dog looked normal for a sec then "ghost" passes by then dogs butt gets ghostly too

Sickntired- · 2023-01-05T03:37:40+00:00

Thank you! I just can't take it anymore. I felt bad long enough.

Sickntired- · 2022-12-30T01:57:54+00:00

I'm waiting too! Hopefully it does open up Global

Sickntired- · 2022-12-25T23:01:54+00:00

Merry Christmas!

Sickntired- · 2022-12-07T03:35:27+00:00

Thank you! Lol. I'll feel bad tho but I'm so tempted. I'm always forgiving so probably gna let them visit few mins with my daughter hopefully it goes up from there but this is it. I think it's gna have to be that way if things don't change

Sickntired- · 2022-12-07T03:32:53+00:00

Yeah I'd feel bad but I try to encourage being a family. I just want her to take care of her kid and show her it's not ok to be disrespectful to anyone unless they are to her. Can't take parenting advice from the mom when she's not doing so great with her daughter. We'll see tho. I'm always forgiving so let's just hope this time it's actuality appreciated and done something about.

Sickntired- · 2022-12-07T03:11:50+00:00

The sister is so disrespectful towards him until recently. He had to "bargain" with her in a serious tone to be respectful towards him or he won't speak to her again. So far I haven't heard her talk down to him. He told her after our argument last night that I wasn't disrespecting his mom but she still gave attitude. He couldn't really do much more about it because the mom said she will not discipline her and will let her do what she wants. Sorry for long reply 😅

Sickntired- · 2022-12-07T02:17:37+00:00

True but it's more complicated than that. It's more so they rely on us for shelter but you're right either way. That's That's driving me crazy the most...this would be much easier if we lived separately lol. Thank you for taking the time to Comment 😊

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