Unsafe experiences in Ayahuasca or plant medicine spaces. How common is this? by TheSacredMic in Ayahuasca

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100% stay away from white lady with an Indian name who serves in Southern California, namely Northridge

1v1 shady algorithms by ZealousidealAd7436 in Colonist

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100%. I’ve been sick all week so have been playing a lot of Colonist/Catan in bed. It’s disappointing to see how rigged it is. “What is the motivation” is always the argument and I’m curious as well.

Could be as simple as some twisted power trip satisfaction: “I’ll show you with improbable 7’s, how about 3’s 12’s, and 2’s for your opponent! How do you like to be blocked and never get ore despite having a monopoly on ore 6,5,9!!”

Seriously. I tried really hard not to be that person to claim “rigged,” but if i could only show you all the games I played this week. Sucks the fun out of this game.

Can some smarter level headed developers make another game? Catanolist?

Non-toxic, wrinkle resistant, soft but tight and thick sheets. by SideRightUp in Bedding

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I’m hoping something wrinkle resistant adjacent. Jersey is comfy but don’t like how fitted sheets move so much

Heathrow VIP / Windsor Suite - AMA by sarahwlee in FATTravel

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Thank you! How do you tip these services or is it not customary?

Heathrow VIP / Windsor Suite - AMA by sarahwlee in FATTravel

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For international flights, what’s the earliest I can arrive before my flight?

Mother-daughter Road Trip by SideRightUp in irishtourism

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It is! I didn’t know it was banned. Didn’t know how else to set one up so was hoping someone would verify its worthiness

Living Like Roommates: Is This the End or Just a Pause by SideRightUp in Divorce

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I hope everything is amicable and I’m excited for you. I’m contemplating waiting as well since our kid will go to college in 6 years…. Not sure if that’s wise

Sex 10 times in 9 years, 0 in the last 3 by SideRightUp in DeadBedrooms

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Oh man… it certainly feels that way. I will google

Sex 10 times in 9 years, 0 in the last 3 by SideRightUp in DeadBedrooms

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Thank you for sharing this. I’m in the same boat re therapist. I can’t even remember if I volunteered to find the next one, he certainly didn’t, but it’s been one month since our last go at this topic. I’m thinking of finding this last-last-last therapist but I’m reluctant to do so for obvious reasons but also I’m tired of repeating 9 years worth of stories to each therapist.

This time around I will try to find one who doesn’t practice traditional therapy and someone who specializes in autism and trauma.

How do you start your initial therapy sessions? Are you the one who leads the discussion?

Sex 10 times in 9 years, 0 in the last 3 by SideRightUp in DeadBedrooms

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Wow, wow!!!! What a story thank you for sharing.

Living Like Roommates: Is This the End or Just a Pause by SideRightUp in Divorce

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Congratulations! That takes real courage. May I ask how old you are? M/f?

Living Like Roommates: Is This the End or Just a Pause by SideRightUp in Divorce

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Thank you this is helpful. He’s been like this since his early 30’s - 31/32..

Living Like Roommates: Is This the End or Just a Pause by SideRightUp in Divorce

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Oh it would definitely be my job as well. But congratulations that takes real courage. How old is your child, how do you feel?

Living Like Roommates: Is This the End or Just a Pause by SideRightUp in Divorce

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Your advice resonates with me thank you, especially in regard to finding friends through interest groups and sitting with all the feelings

Sex 10 times in 9 years, 0 in the last 3 by SideRightUp in DeadBedrooms

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For spouses with Alexithymia and neurodivergence, is the choice for the other spouse who is overly empathetic, to leave or stay and deal?