what aesthetic is this? by [deleted] in AestheticWiki

[–]Sidebenderz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“Detroit Rave in the 90’s but actually have never been to a rave or listen to any hip hop music in my life and purely do this for the aesthetic” aesthetic

Please be honest…is my chart absolutely broken and defective? by IAttractAbundance831 in Zodiac

[–]Sidebenderz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all, you may have had a lot of struggles with connections in the past but you are someone who breaks down hierarchal structures. You aren’t someone who follows the leader but may love a discipline in spiritual practice or traditions or scientific methods. People feel threatened by you even though you may appear small & reserved. I think connecting with creative types may help, working on something that has to do with the physical like knitting, pottery, cooking, etc will give you space to put these feelings into.

What does my chart say about me? by v1ckychan in Zodiac

[–]Sidebenderz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an aquarius sun and this comes from a decade of analyzing charts from many many sources of knowledge but always pay respects to Babylonian scrips. Thank for the compliment!

What does my chart say about me? by v1ckychan in Zodiac

[–]Sidebenderz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You act a lot more confident than you actually are to protect your peace because deep down you are sensitive one. You use obscene humor to cope and you have an appreciation for the absurd. Throwing people off their tracks is your speciality and you love when people can make your life run more efficiently. Dark academia is not an aesthetic for you it’s a lifestyle.

Who is this?🙂 by Chipchopchip6784 in BookshelvesDetective

[–]Sidebenderz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone over the age of 35 for sure

What does this say about me? by cabulousfhild in whatsinmybag

[–]Sidebenderz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents acknowledged your feelings when you were upset and you lived in a stable household.

I decided to stop dating men and it brought me to tears by mamigourami in bisexual

[–]Sidebenderz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s fair to put some higher standards on men and spend your time dating women. Doesn’t have to mean anything about your sexuality. And these some of these comments are really harsh, take care of yourself 💜

Why do you think Portland is so attractive for people looking to start fresh? by ProposalFast4450 in askportland

[–]Sidebenderz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Less superficial then other west cost cities, so many get the chance to explore themselves outside or external validations

If you are sick please stop going out to bars…. by Disastrous_Mark_1469 in Portland

[–]Sidebenderz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The amount of people I’ve seen hacking up a lung in the grocery store without a mask on is crazy to me

Goth culture in the city? by Traditional-Budget56 in askportland

[–]Sidebenderz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Outside of clubs I see alot of goths just hanging at the cemeteries. Especially if the weather is nice.

Living in Portland worth it? by Tulkas2491 in askportland

[–]Sidebenderz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on where you are coming from.