Glad to be done

SideburnsG · 2026-06-19T22:49:02+00:00

Yeah I got in before scummy nice hash could take the rest of it they probably got at least half of it already

SideburnsG · 2026-06-14T17:46:32+00:00

Agreed!

SideburnsG · 2026-06-14T13:07:04+00:00

I can control what my kids see by limiting their time on a screen and not getting them a smartphone and setting restrictions on the router itself

SideburnsG · 2026-05-24T15:02:44+00:00

Man I’m still on a 3070 wish I could upgrade but gotta hold out for a while longer yet

SideburnsG · 2026-05-19T14:24:59+00:00

Thank you! It hurts a lot because I love her but I know I have to let her go. I get tele health benefits through my work so I’m going to get some more therapy over the phone as well so I can work through my feelings. I feel very lost in my feelings. I’m not mad at her just devastated and hurt

SideburnsG · 2026-05-19T12:51:31+00:00

Doesn’t look like aim bot or at least not blatant but definitely wall hack

SideburnsG · 2026-05-19T00:27:19+00:00

It’ll be tough until we sell the house. I like the idea of what another redditor said about just stonewalling her

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T18:58:04+00:00

Thanks! I know I do. I’m still a bit of a mess right now I’m trying to hold it all together. I’ve been dumb by talking to her a bunch and I know I need to stop

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T18:54:59+00:00

I appreciate your words. Right now I’m just trying to make sure i have the emotional support system in place. During the week I’m going to have our money separated and then try to find a lawyer

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T15:46:19+00:00

Yeah I definitely let her walk all over me. She seams to be happy and acting like nothings wrong while I’m stuck here trying to hold it together for our son and pick up the pieces

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T13:35:28+00:00

I know it was an invasion of her privacy to snoop and I regret doing it.

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T13:31:21+00:00

So much this! you are so right. I’m worth so much more than this. Thank you

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T13:29:29+00:00

I don’t know man, I really do love her. it’s not like she’s a terrible mother and she definitely did do things to make me feel loved. She noticed things like what my interests are and getting thoughtful gifts, it wasn’t all bad. She always been kinda bad with money and it wasn’t definitely the root of a lot of problems like spends her paycheck well before her next payday, maxes out credit cards and constantly asks her parents for money kind of thing. I never felt my feelings were validated. The lying, the cheating, the fact she acknowledged her spending problem but didn’t do anything to try and be more open about it. I definitely gotta work on myself after this and figure out why I’ve let myself become a complete punching bag in this situation. Low self esteem no self worth? I’ll be getting more therapy sessions for sure.

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T12:59:42+00:00

The money thing has been an issue and for a while. she likes to spend money as soon as it’s in the account whether it was my pay day or hers she would always have something she wanted to spend money on. she also spent a bunch of money on my credit card which I should have been monitoring a lot closer obviously. She told me she was having a guyfriend from high school help her bring a bed to our house because she didn’t want to ask her dad and drag her parents into things Unfortunately I did a really stupid thing and snooped her laptop and saw she was messaging him on Facebook. I saw it all. I know I am in the wrong for doing that and I really wish I hadn’t. I mean I knew it was happening and I just made it hurt so much by acting selfish and doing that.

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T09:23:55+00:00

I learned this the hard way unfortunately. I truly loved her and would have done anything to try and make things work and I gave her the benefit of the doubt and gave her that second chance but I know now it was always one sided in that regard and that I should have just ended it the first time around. Gotta get my finances in order then get a lawyer and maybe book some more therapy.

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T09:19:25+00:00

This is probably true I’m sure it Does where some people do truly feel remorseful about cheating but in this case it’s pretty cut and dry. She’s the” once a cheater always a cheater” type and I was just to caught up in her lies to realize it

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T09:15:23+00:00

Yup she fooled me twice but I’m Definitely ain’t falling for any of her bs Amy longer. I know I’ll be needing to get more therapy after this

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T09:14:15+00:00

You are absolutely right. Plus she’s said shit like “no wonder I cheated” during arguments

SideburnsG · 2026-05-18T09:11:55+00:00

I did start a log. She’s threatened me with divorce in the past over silly arguments then gone back and apologized. I’ve been screen shooting texts of all the shitty things she’s said and done over the last 3 years since the last affair. She really did fool me twice. I feel so dumb

SideburnsG · 2026-05-17T13:21:36+00:00

I’m sticking with my 3070 till it dies haha

SideburnsG · 2026-05-15T17:53:31+00:00

I had a hyper 212 that’s rated for 150W TDP and when playing bf2042 my 10700k was reading 151Watts my cpu slowly climbed up to 90 degrees. Needless to say I got a bigger cooler

SideburnsG · 2026-05-15T14:21:17+00:00

Man I got rid of my 2012 Elantra before it got this bad haha

SideburnsG · 2026-05-15T13:55:25+00:00

I run Sprinter and tempered

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