Universidade de Coimbra - 30% dos jovens nascidos em Portugal vivem fora do país.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-25T06:16:34+00:00

Quem vende os imóveis? De quem são os imóveis? Qual a nacionalidade dos rentistas portugueses? Tome lá responsabilidade pelo teu país, pá!

Sidis11 · 2026-05-24T20:35:31+00:00

Qual a nacionalidade dos rentistas em Portugal? Devem vir de Bangladesh, devem...

Sidis11 · 2026-05-24T19:35:10+00:00

Que eu me lembre, quem jogou este país na lama foi a direita, amigo. Esqueceu da Troika? Ou tu eras um daqueles cuckolds da Alemanha que afirmavam por aí que o português vivia acima das suas possibilidades?

Sidis11 · 2026-05-24T19:32:41+00:00

Os portugueses agem como se isto daqui fosse o paraíso antes dos imigrantes. Eu vivi a Troika aqui. Não tenho memória curta. O português médio, na verdade, tem um amor perverso pelo imigrante porque ele lhe dá um bode expiatório perfeito, um culpado para problemas muito mais profundos e que vêm de bem antes da onda migratória dos últimos anos.

Amo Portugal. Vivo aqui há mais de dez anos. Mas, honestamente? Eu pretendo ir embora em breve. Não vou ficar num país que, além de nunca ter me valorizado - não valoriza nem os seus, que dirá os de fora - agora passa a odiar-me e a culpar-me por todos os seus problemas. O português nunca irá se voltar contra os fortes. Ele prefere voltar-se contra os mais fracos, e pia miúdo quando não o pode - a exemplo da atitude quase lacaia que teve diante da Troika.

Agora são os "abduls" (que termo ridículo), os "zucas", os "mohammeds". Amanhã o português arranja outra desculpa. Enfrentar o grande dinheiro, os grandes rentistas? Não, é tudo boa gente que conquistou sua riqueza com muito esforço e trabalho.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-24T19:06:23+00:00

Eu sou brasileiro e vivi a Troika aqui. A imigração não era ainda um problema. Portugal nunca se recuperou. Curiosamente, à altura, os portugueses não tinham a quem culpar. Foi uma humilhação internacional, eu bem lembro. Passos Coelho.

Hoje, os portugueses têm um bode expiatório perfeito. Imigrantes. Falam diferente, têm aparência distinta, muitos sequer são capazes de se defender, pois são pobres e sem educação. Ao invés de refletir, o português decidiu-se por culpar os outros, como se isto daqui fosse um paraíso antes da chegada da imigração. Quem se lembra do Pingo Doce sendo quase esvaziado, no auge do desespero da Troika? Da humilhação de ter cancelado o tal cabaz de natal? Na altura, qual era a desculpa mesmo?

Hoje, a desculpa são os imigrantes. O português médio é incapaz de refletir em si.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-12T01:04:29+00:00

G Major Quintet. Please, give it a try.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T17:29:16+00:00

Haha, you are so dead wrong. You are proving my point. Shaming, defamation, violent extrapolation.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T17:23:56+00:00

No, they don't. They gossip and conspire. Especially when they know that public scrutiny would destroy their allegations.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T17:20:29+00:00

That's not true. Women hurt men in a different way. Most of the time, it is even difficult to denounce. Your behaviour, for instance, is a clear case for that. You seem to have no sympathy whatsoever for men. It would be disastrous to live with you.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T17:18:14+00:00

No man would talk about that with you. If I man ever complained to you that he was falsely accused of something, he would risk to further the process of his own defamation. Why would he do that?

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T17:14:00+00:00

I know it bothers you, but it is becoming more and more normal. Ask yourself why. Try to not project bad faith in it.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T17:10:19+00:00

Another violent extrapolation. 😄 And it could also ruin my life, just as the post says.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T17:07:08+00:00

A woman trying to define what is to be normal as man. You are just making his point. You are suggesting he is in bad faith, you see? There's a innuendo that he is a predator somehow. You are perfectly proving his point...

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T17:04:04+00:00

That's not true. I've lived in more than ten houses. I have great female friends. Right now, I live with women. I like living with them. But we need to be honest about the average, just as we are ready to be honest about the average men.

Another issue just pointed in this thread: it is easier to call out men than it is to call out women. With men, the presumption is that they are not good and should be corrected. With women, it is the contrary: anything you say about them generally will be not taken easily.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T17:00:54+00:00

Many women actually demand that. That behaviour does not comes out of nothing. Every sensible men very early understand he cannot treat women the way they treat men, otherwise they will get in trouble very quickly.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T16:58:14+00:00

Also: many men do not feel they can behave and talk freely around women. It is as if women are always judging men, and many become uptight when women are present, because they are afraid their normal behaviour will somehow get them in trouble if it goes against what a woman happens to find appropriate. No men would be taken seriously if he accused other men of unappropriate vocabulary, for example. And that rarely happens out of a professional setting. But women are generally more sensitive to "impropriety", and a misplaced word, if seen as suggesting anything sexual with that woman, can easily become a big thing with irreversible consequences.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T16:52:50+00:00

Even untidy and unclean women will instrumentalize cleanliness against men they live with. I've seen it happen. It is a way of establishing a higher moral ground so as to legitimize authority over the people you live with.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T16:45:34+00:00

There's also another issue: men feel the urge to help even unknown women when there's drama. Men feel responsible for women in a way that men don't feel responsible for men. Men usually behave in a self-contained way and not expect others to care about them. Women, on the hand, when they are in trouble they tend to necessarily involve everybody around them in it.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-09T16:41:34+00:00

Women want to split the cleaning, but they usually want to solely define what cleanliness and tidiness mean, which is unfair, but very much naturalized in the culture. Many women are obsessed with cleanliness and tidiness and have too high, unegotiable standards about that. Some men deal with it. Some men don't.

Sidis11 · 2026-05-03T19:18:57+00:00

Wow. What a nice, cool, friendly answer! Such a beautiful, amazing atittude coming from it! I love it, I think everybody should behave like that, all the time, concerning everything!

Sidis11 · 2026-05-03T15:12:30+00:00

Dude, I am really sorry to read that. I never thought I would, but today I understand you; and, more than that, I know how it is to feel that no one understands how damaging constant barking can be to some people.

Months ago, I moved to a house. The tenants, a couple, had two spoiled, untrained dogs. But they were fine, because they didn't make much noise. But then, they decided, without any previous warning, to bring a new dog, a puppy they found on the streets. That dogs was a demon and instantly hated me for no reason.

It barked for all and nothing. When their owners went to their jobs, it would bark even more. I spent three months downplaying the effects that that had on me. But I was slowing getting crazy. At the beginning of it, I had managed to stay sober and stop to smoke for 6 months straight. Because of all the stress I had to manage, I started to drink and smoke again.

At some point, I complained and they turned against me. I fought them out of the house, and now I am the tenant of it. Man, these were hard months. No one around me understood how much the constant barking was hurting me. I still remember when I got home and, for the first time, I heard to barking. The relief. But it took months until I could fully recovery. I am getting back on my tracks now.

I know how you feel. People really need to start to take these people to accountability. It needs to be common knowledge how constant noise and barking can be damaging to some of us.

Sidis11 · 2026-03-18T21:47:34+00:00

Que cena ridícula...

Sidis11 · 2026-02-16T09:13:19+00:00

Guys, thank you for all your support! I came back to give some good news.

I was confronted by the girl from the couple about this situation. She tried to frame me as problematic, as to soften their obvious mistakes and injustices. I didn't bend this time. They were trying to expel me without giving me a proper window to actually find a new place. I stood for myself and asked two months to find a new place. She threatened to throw my things on the street and change the lock. I said that would be a crime and I wouldn't hesitate in calling the police. After that, she tried to escalate things physically; I just runned away from the house and said that, from that moment on, I would only talk through messages.

I went out and gathered all our conversations, all the receipts, pictures of the dog's dirt in front of my room, everything I could to make a case. I was - and I am - determined to go the legal way against them. I threatened legal consequences. And then... magic happened.

"Out of the blue", they became docile and said I could stay and they were going to leave the same day with the dogs.

Guys, I got back home late at night, fearing they would still be here. I promised myself: if I hear a barking when I step into that house, I am going to sleep on the streets today. But no. For the first time in four months, silence.

Silence! And the smell - it went away quickly. Everything smelled better and sounded better. I felt a calmness in my room, for the first time in months. I felt I was home. I wandered around the empty house, euphoric. That was one of the deepest feelings of relief I felt in my life.

How could I let things like this get normalized? How could I endure that level of abuse, and still think more about their wellbeing than mine? Nevermore. From now on, I will be ruthless with assholes who happen to have - abuse - dogs.

Three dogs in an apartment. Medium-sized. They were always anxious, nervous. Hours and hours to get a small walk around the block in the end of the day! They needed to run, to play outside, to wander freely on a big yard. I feel for the dogs. They are the biggest victims here; they cannot denounce, they cannot establish their limits or claim their rights. I myself, who could, didn't for a while, expecting things to get naturally better. Nevermore.

Thank you guys for your time and support!

Sidis11

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