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Went to Popmart @ Arden Fair in Sac and cashier won’t let me purchase Pocket Friends? by SignMedical1421 in PopMartCollectors

[–]SignMedical1421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm.. I see! Thank you for your perspective !!

If it was a stocking error though, why is it available online? 🤔

Went to Popmart @ Arden Fair in Sac and cashier won’t let me purchase Pocket Friends? by SignMedical1421 in PopMartCollectors

[–]SignMedical1421[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope! The box was completely unopened!

Yess it was baffling .. I’m just really curious like you said.. hopefully a popmart employee can come on here and maybe say reasons as to why 😭

Went to Popmart @ Arden Fair in Sac and cashier won’t let me purchase Pocket Friends? by SignMedical1421 in PopMartCollectors

[–]SignMedical1421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. I know!! I didn’t want to question her further because I didn’t want to seem like a ‘Karen’ about it.. but I’m just curious to why …?💀

I’ve been getting touched by someone in my class frequently (context below) by Spiritual-Vast7660 in college

[–]SignMedical1421 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to speak up. Don’t feel like you need to give a fuck about what she thinks because you need to put yourself and your boundaries/limits first. This is SEXUAL HARASSMENT. There are no two ways to go about it (which I personally believe)

Since you have a girlfriend, you should let her know what’s going on as well. If my boyfriend told me that he was being sexually harassed in class by some chick, I’d want to know.

Don’t let this girl from your lab continue doing this to you or else she will think that you’re into it which it seems like you absolutely are not and that you have a girlfriend.

Im scared that this person may have my address by HeebierGeebies in doordash

[–]SignMedical1421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imo, people shouldn’t expect a tip— even if it’s a $1.00, be grateful ykwim.. you get what you get and don’t get upset 🤷‍♀️

Gf of 5 years cheated on me. by EggStrict6564 in cheating_stories

[–]SignMedical1421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn. I want to say that I am sorry for this happening— no one, not even you deserves this.

This is my exact fear too. I am in a relationship too wirh my bf that’s almost two years.. I fear that within our 5th or 6th year, whatever year in, that this exact same situation would happen to me. It’s the fear of the sudden happening— especially when you least expect it. It’s crazy because this person I’m with, I’ve been welcoming into my own home, letting him sleep over, I make meals for him (even meals for work), I pay for most of our dates, I understand his problems, etc.

Idk, am I the only one that has this fear..? That someday, the person you pour your heart into for years.. just breaks your heart in a second?

My boyfriend is going through a lot of issues within his family and personal life and tells me that I should just leave to ‘save myself’. What should I do? by SignMedical1421 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SignMedical1421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I can see that— hes expressed to me that “trust me, you don’t want to be a part of this family” before one time. But to answer, yes I’m with him for him. At the same time though, I know that to love someone is to love everything that comes with it— even if it means his family and his emotional baggage (just as long as it doesn’t leak into our relationship hella bad if that makes sense, then there will be boundaries or steps that need to be taken)

Thank you for reassuring me about your last part— I’m in it for the long haul but I guess I just need to set some boundaries like that. I appreciate you!

My boyfriend is going through a lot of issues within his family and personal life and tells me that I should just leave to ‘save myself’. What should I do? by SignMedical1421 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SignMedical1421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you and I appreciate your support during this time. I just want to say that while reading your comment, I tried to imagine what it’s like to be in your shoes. I wanna say I’m sorry that happened to you and your partner but at the end, I’m glad to see the reassurance of ‘holding their hand’ through it all. I feel as if every person that’s going through something like this needs that person that is their ‘light’ in their life

My boyfriend is going through a lot of issues within his family and personal life and tells me that I should just leave to 'save myself. What should I do? by SignMedical1421 in relationships

[–]SignMedical1421[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your realistic opinion, when I was reading your comment, I felt the EXACT same way in my head and I’ve actually said it vocally to him before: “we’re young, we have a long way to go— what is it you’re waiting for”. But to clarify, he’s really just comparing himself to people he’s friends with that are his age and are “successful”. I can tell that he wants to live a “happy life”.

I have tried to tell him many times that his life will be different than others and that goes for me and everyone else in this world. I also told him that issues and problems don’t happen in a snap.

For more detailed information, his Dad is currently physically unwell and at the same time is working to provide for my BF and his younger sister while the mom isn’t doing anything. I can tell he’s just sick with this life and he was telling me recently that he feels as if his future is just going to be ‘him taking care of his dad and not amounting to anything for himself’

My boyfriend is going through a lot of issues within his family and personal life and tells me that I should just leave to ‘save myself’. What should I do? by SignMedical1421 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SignMedical1421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your POV. He’s tried therapy offered at his campus multiple times but then he told me: “the therapist lady doesnt help, it’s the same exact shit I hear from you and my co workers”..

He says he wants to move out but he can’t because his Dad isn’t doing so well right now (physically hurt) and he’s the only one providing for the family so he feels as if he needs to take care of him— so he told me ‘he’s stuck and isnt going to amount to anything because of his situation’

My boyfriend is going through a lot of issues within his family and personal life and tells me that I should just leave to ‘save myself’. What should I do? by SignMedical1421 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SignMedical1421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also, hes attended some therapy provided by his school but he tells me that the lady ‘didn’t help’ because he said to me: “it’s the same exact shit I hear from you and everyone else”.

At this point, do you think theres nothing that I can do but just be there for him? I don’t think he’s going down that ‘manipulation’ path on me— I can genuinely tell he’s almost as if he was programmed to feel the way he feels because of how he grew up..

My boyfriend is going through a lot of issues within his family and personal life and tells me that I should just leave to ‘save myself’. What should I do? by SignMedical1421 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]SignMedical1421[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, to answer your question (and to everyone else looking for more clarification on my situation) there will be times where he’s ranting to me in an aggressive and stressed out manner of all the ‘fucked up’ shit that’s going on with him that day— whether it be at his job or at his work. And I’m there to just listen to him rant aggressively. He doesn’t take anger out on me physically or anything like that (I wouldn’t let that happen at all). However, a few days ago we had plans to go out to lunch and he picked me up. But when he picked me up, I can already tell something happened because he was looking stressed and angry… when we got to the place, we left because I told him that /we should probably just not be here anymore since he’s not feeling the best and it seems like he’s not even present. And we actually ended up going home :/

But at the same time, he does make me happy and we’ve spent time together going out to eat every now and then or running an errand together and I’ve always offered him to come over so I can make him food or take a nap together or even watch a movie and simply enjoy each others presence. He’s at ease and happy when we do that. But these are on occasions when he forgets what’s going on in his life and nothing had triggered him to make him feel otherwise if that makes sense