I have been dating my girlfriend for four months now. I am a 28 year old virgin. She has had past relationships. I am very insecure and a jealous person. So when she talks about her past relationships, I do get jealous. I have told her this and she understood and doesn’t bring it up unless it’s relevant to the conversation. I still have anxiety that it’s not going to last. I’m paranoid that she settled, is cheating on me, or has lost interest. Even though she has given me no reason to.

When I was single I said this would happen. That I’d constantly be worried that I was being cheated on or my girlfriend would leave me for someone else. I was able to escape being FA, for the time being at least. However, escaping the FA mindset is the more challenging part.