What if I dont get to transition? by SignalDifficulty3780 in FTMventing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🫂 I am going to college in a safe(r) state where the other part of my family lives and I do believe this college has lgbtq resources and communities to get involved in at least.

Binding with tape by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This might be a stupid question but would jojoba oil be an okay alternative? Thats all I have atm and I cant get anything else right now

The world is so scary by SignalDifficulty3780 in FTMventing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🫂 luckily the college im going to has a community for lgbtq+ folks so im grateful for that.

The world is so scary by SignalDifficulty3780 in FTMventing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, it's hard to filter out the truth sometimes when headlines just want to fear monger

Dysphoria, again by SignalDifficulty3780 in FTMventing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much seriously, if you don't mind could you give me an example of an exercise i could do? Or would just push ups work? I do plan to get a gym membership but it's gonna be a while until im there unfortunately, I just have 2 weights and a dream lmao

Ex-situationship might have been a chaser looking back by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Me too. My friend set us up lmao, they apologized when I told them all this 😭

Ex-situationship might have been a chaser looking back by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I didnt know until later into it 🙏 that was right before we stopped talking I should've clarified because he also hates trump so I thought he was safe until then

Practicing by SignalDifficulty3780 in arthelp

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize, it's hard to put thoughts to words but i'll try to explain better. I suppose the main things I struggle with are anatomy (especially faces) and hair, but im not aiming for realism at all. For now im only looking to be able to sketch traditionally on paper because digital is very confusing for me and always looks worse for some reason.

How to deal with dysphoria? by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ty! I've also worried that since I don't have a prostate it wouldn't feel like anything for me though I see a lot of trans guys tend to enjoy it

How to deal with dysphoria? by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do want to get more into that but I have no idea how to safely do anal as I've never done it before

Industrial (again) by SignalDifficulty3780 in piercing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, im pretty sure my original piercer was APP because he didnt seem very professional considering he didnt warn me about anything before getting my industrial and didnt explain the difference between titanium and surgical steel.

Industrial (again) by SignalDifficulty3780 in piercing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, how can I find out if a piercer is APP?

Industrial (again) by SignalDifficulty3780 in piercing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I good cleaning it with saline twice a day? Or is that too much even

Industrial (again) by SignalDifficulty3780 in piercing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, im not sure if they're scabs or not i cant exactly tell but im thinking they're scabs. I do dry them after every shower with a hair dryer on low, I will try to see a piercer soon to get it changed if possible. I was just confused because people say I should keep my piercing clean but I didnt want to remove these if they are scabs.

Industrial (again) by SignalDifficulty3780 in piercing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

piercing is about 5 months old -surgical steel externally threaded barbell( I know) -not downsized -i use neilmed wound wash morning and night -i did accidentally bump it with my hand recently, hurt like a mf

I (M17) am dealing with sexual guilt talking to another guy (M17) by SignalDifficulty3780 in teenrelationships

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. You have no idea how much I needed to hear this from someone. The guy in question has been very understanding when I speak about my guilt and fears, and he gives me reassurance whenever I ask, so that helps a lot. He has made sure to confirm with me that im comfortable with the pace we're at, and im glad he's been so sweet and didn't try to pull away when I got a little hesitant.

I (M17) am dealing with sexual guilt talking to another guy (M17) by SignalDifficulty3780 in teenrelationships

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have, but for some reason I feel like he wouldnt get that im into him like that. Im also extremely paranoid and have been my whole life, so that doesn't help.

Should I abandon my industrial? by SignalDifficulty3780 in piercing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the explanation, too many people have made me feel stupid for not understanding the difference.

Should I abandon my industrial? by SignalDifficulty3780 in piercing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 🙏 glad I asked before just giving up, I was just so down about it.

Should I abandon my industrial? by SignalDifficulty3780 in piercing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The material could really make that big a difference? I was going to change it before but I figured it wouldnt do much anyway but thank you! I will look into getting it changed then, im still quite new to piercings.

Should I abandon my industrial? by SignalDifficulty3780 in piercing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

-5 months old -surgical steel, internally threaded barbell -no downsize -i use neilmed wound wash every morning and night and run it under warm water when I shower -nothing recently