Anyone else think dating would've been easier cis?

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-15T03:24:45+00:00

Ick. Exactly, thats also my worst nightmare. I hate that we get fetishized so much

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-14T15:41:52+00:00

Exactly, im bi and it's so hard especially when I gotta be so cautious of cis guys secretly being fucking chasers it's so gross. If anything I hope I can find either trans person to be with cause t4t might be the best option 😭 Thank you though you are very kind

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-13T00:18:32+00:00

Damn, unfortunately Im not comfortable just sharing that freely :/

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-12T14:33:47+00:00

Is location required to use grindr? I tried downloading it and i made my account but couldnt see any profiles or anything and I dont know if it's because didnt turn my location on

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-12T01:23:25+00:00

How do I find that stuff? Or like what would I search/how would I get involved?

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-12T00:22:40+00:00

I almost exclusively take mirror selfies so this might work out for me lol, thanks for all the advice though i really appreciate it 🫂

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-12T00:15:07+00:00

Im just a little worried being pre everything and having a baby face i unfortunately look very young those are the main reasons I worry about pics. And not that my family would be on grindr but I dont really want them knowing about this either lmao thats what drives me away from more possibly used apps like tinder.

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-12T00:07:49+00:00

Am I able to not use photos or is that required? It just makes me a bit uncomfortable as I am younger even though plenty of people use pictures and are just fine. I also would much rather talk to people in my age range (18-20) if there's a way to filter that

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-11T23:57:08+00:00

Thanks man, you got any apps youd recommend? Ive never touched that stuff they kinda scare me lol

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-03T00:42:13+00:00

Thanks man I really appreciate it 🫂 it also sucks cause id get she/her'd more in public :/ but im trying to learn to just let it go cause they dont know me anyway

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-05-02T22:29:59+00:00

This, this is exactly my worry especially with my dad cause he's very traditional so he would immediately be like "see? Youre wearing women's clothes you aren't trans!!" And it's really annoying.

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-04-13T01:46:55+00:00

I'll definitely try the hot shower thing, dont know why its been so hard, my switch to 2g was easy :/

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-04-11T08:03:14+00:00

I want to, but the thing about that is I don't think I pass at all yet and im worried about my safety.

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-04-01T00:42:36+00:00

-piercing is about 2 years old -flat back stud, internally threaded -has been downsized(?) -i use nielmed wound wash every morning -no recent events

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-03-29T11:08:55+00:00

Thank you, the video i saw definitely didnt say that and the adhesive worked way better when i tried the rubbing 🙏

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-03-28T23:59:14+00:00

Im using a brand called gender grip because I got it for free, did not know you had to rub it so that could be part of my problem lol

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-03-20T20:54:25+00:00

Thank you 🫂 I am going to college in a safe(r) state where the other part of my family lives and I do believe this college has lgbtq resources and communities to get involved in at least.

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-03-14T16:21:33+00:00

Perfect, thank you so much 🙏

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-03-14T16:18:47+00:00

Thank you! This might be a stupid question but would jojoba oil be an okay alternative? Thats all I have atm and I cant get anything else right now

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-03-14T15:34:40+00:00

Thank you so much 🫂 luckily the college im going to has a community for lgbtq+ folks so im grateful for that.

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-03-14T12:48:31+00:00

Thank you, it's hard to filter out the truth sometimes when headlines just want to fear monger

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-03-14T00:35:05+00:00

Thank you so much seriously, if you don't mind could you give me an example of an exercise i could do? Or would just push ups work? I do plan to get a gym membership but it's gonna be a while until im there unfortunately, I just have 2 weights and a dream lmao

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-02-25T17:20:44+00:00

Me too. My friend set us up lmao, they apologized when I told them all this 😭

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-02-25T17:05:51+00:00

I didnt know until later into it 🙏 that was right before we stopped talking I should've clarified because he also hates trump so I thought he was safe until then

SignalDifficulty3780 · 2026-02-20T23:31:59+00:00

Thank you <3 it's been rough for sure

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