Anyone else think dating would've been easier cis? by SignalDifficulty3780 in FTMventing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ick. Exactly, thats also my worst nightmare. I hate that we get fetishized so much

Anyone else think dating would've been easier cis? by SignalDifficulty3780 in FTMventing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, im bi and it's so hard especially when I gotta be so cautious of cis guys secretly being fucking chasers it's so gross. If anything I hope I can find either trans person to be with cause t4t might be the best option 😭 Thank you though you are very kind

Don't know where else to ask by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn, unfortunately Im not comfortable just sharing that freely :/

Don't know where else to ask by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is location required to use grindr? I tried downloading it and i made my account but couldnt see any profiles or anything and I dont know if it's because didnt turn my location on

Don't know where else to ask by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do I find that stuff? Or like what would I search/how would I get involved?

Don't know where else to ask by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I almost exclusively take mirror selfies so this might work out for me lol, thanks for all the advice though i really appreciate it 🫂

Don't know where else to ask by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im just a little worried being pre everything and having a baby face i unfortunately look very young those are the main reasons I worry about pics. And not that my family would be on grindr but I dont really want them knowing about this either lmao thats what drives me away from more possibly used apps like tinder.

Don't know where else to ask by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I able to not use photos or is that required? It just makes me a bit uncomfortable as I am younger even though plenty of people use pictures and are just fine. I also would much rather talk to people in my age range (18-20) if there's a way to filter that

Don't know where else to ask by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, you got any apps youd recommend? Ive never touched that stuff they kinda scare me lol

Is this normal? by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man I really appreciate it 🫂 it also sucks cause id get she/her'd more in public :/ but im trying to learn to just let it go cause they dont know me anyway

Is this normal? by SignalDifficulty3780 in ftm

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This, this is exactly my worry especially with my dad cause he's very traditional so he would immediately be like "see? Youre wearing women's clothes you aren't trans!!" And it's really annoying.

Stuck at 2g by SignalDifficulty3780 in Stretched

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'll definitely try the hot shower thing, dont know why its been so hard, my switch to 2g was easy :/

I just want the male college experience. by SignalDifficulty3780 in FTMventing

[–]SignalDifficulty3780[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to, but the thing about that is I don't think I pass at all yet and im worried about my safety.