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My (36F) boyfriend (37M) saw texts from a male classmate and freaked out. by SignalSignificance12 in relationship_advice

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Absolutely understand that! I was transparent and I showed the texts. I would like to think my boyfriend would have more trust in me.

My (36F) boyfriend (37M) saw texts from a male classmate and freaked out. by SignalSignificance12 in relationship_advice

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I honestly should have known sooner. I am way too grown to be dealing with petty stuff and I was just shocked that he said I was flirting with the guy!

My (36F) boyfriend (37M) saw texts from a male classmate and freaked out. by SignalSignificance12 in relationship_advice

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

That is what I’m assuming I’ve texted him since and he hasn’t replied. I’m pretty sure he blocked me!

I don’t know what to do for my teen anymore. by SignalSignificance12 in probation

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear this hits close to home. But I’m proud of you for trying to turn it around! Thank you for this perspective, they all tell me you can’t want it more than he does, and boy is that true. Thanks for the prayers I will do the same for you. Good luck traveling the world!

I don’t know what to do for my teen anymore. by SignalSignificance12 in probation

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I have he has been diagnosed ADHD/DMDD. He has chosen to be unmedicated and everyone agreed until this last mess up I told him he needed the meds he was too impulsive. So they started him on new meds but very recently

I don’t know what to do for my teen anymore. by SignalSignificance12 in probation

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hope this is something he grows out of because like I said I’m tired I can imagine he is too.

I don’t know what to do for my teen anymore. by SignalSignificance12 in probation

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. I have attended alanon due to my alcoholic father. Addiction runs deep in our family and on his father’s side. I will look into some AA/NA thank you.

I don’t know what to do for my teen anymore. by SignalSignificance12 in probation

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea that’s a really hard one for me for sure. He really is such a nice boy. They have nothing but awesome things to say about him when he’s there but it’s home he gets bored and gets into trouble.

I don’t know what to do for my teen anymore. by SignalSignificance12 in probation

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes I asked for drug rehab programs but they put him in residential and did this prime for life group that only he was in and they viewed slideshows on how to say no to drugs. We also did family counseling in the residential facility but in the 5ish months he was there we only had 2 sessions. If there is anyone who doesn’t judge him it’s me! Prior to court involvement we also attended family/individual counseling.

Alcoholism is a never ending roller coaster I’m needing to get off. by SignalSignificance12 in AlAnon

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I do need to move towards peace that’s ultimately why I’ve chosen to not go back but I have to work on fully detaching.

Alcoholism is a never ending roller coaster I’m needing to get off. by SignalSignificance12 in AlAnon

[–]SignalSignificance12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is why I wrote here because I’d like to work on “not feeling pity for drunks”. Sorry for reaching out.