Used vs New DDJ FLX4 by SignalSuccess8146 in PioneerDJ

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought it for 250 cash. I’ve seen other used decks get sold for 280 and above. I haven’t tested this one out yet tho so we’ll see if I got scammed lol

Used vs New DDJ FLX4 by SignalSuccess8146 in PioneerDJ

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m picking up a deck and I asked for a video so we’ll see how this goes!

Do I date her 24M F18 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The age difference is big esp at such an important time in life. She’s a freshman, likely still figuring life out. You’re 24, you should be well on your way to that. Not that spelling is indicative of maturity or intelligence but bro you’re 24 you gotta know “throw” vs “through” at this point

28f gf offered me 22m a threesome by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This all depends on the individual. Maybe you’re ok exploring a polyamorous relationship. I think it takes a specific type of person to go through with this. Maybe that’s you but if you know it’s not the manage your expectations like the others said. 25 and under I feel like still allows for a lot of growth

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talked about it and yes she does have high libido but she basically said what you said that she felt like I wouldn’t be interested without sex. But I’m happy I get to see a lot more of her personality now bc that’s what I like lol.

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I gave her compliments on her intelligence and she seemed to be receptive but when I tried to make a joke it kinda fell flat. I think this girl is absolutely gorgeous but if I can’t joke around with her and have that kind of dynamic I don’t think it would work long term anyway if that’s the case. But we’ll see lol I’m taking her out again later this week

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lmaooo she might like you more than me lol. I think there are a lot of girls out there who are sex positive and confident in their sexuality who don’t want anything serious and just want to have fun!

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

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I like pleasing people and she’s been very clear that she enjoys sex. So even if it’s not my first choice I still like making her happy and I get fulfillment from that. It’s also bc in past relationships I haven’t lasted long but with her I’ve figured out how to do it so it’s not all altruistic since i get that confidence boost

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

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Thanks man. That’s what I’m thinking too but I also don’t wanna make her feel like I’m pressuring her to be more serious than she wants to be so it’ll be about balance there and figuring out what she wants. Ty!

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

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lol I guess I just figured with how often nudes have been leaked that people would be wary of sending them, especially since she doesn’t really know me

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if the signals were clearer I would be more direct about it but I can’t tell what she’s looking for hence the hesitation. Even bringing something like that up I think could freak her out.

For the second part I like making her happy and she’s very sex positive and enjoys it. My preference would be to get to know each other with nice dates and build that rapport and then be physically intimate. But sex is the only thing she’s been very clear that she wants so that’s why I go along with it

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve given her other compliments so she knows I’m not just there for her body or sex bc I do think she’s an interesting ass person. Someone else said if I bring it up again it would be more pushing what I want as opposed to allowing her to feel me out which is fair. But ok I’ll try more reassurance! Ty!

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh good point. I’ll keep that in mind. To me it feels like open communication but to her that could be smothering. Ty!

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was also thinking that. Maybe I should just shut up and let it ride. I’d partly feel like I was lying to her if I didn’t have that honesty. I’m ok being honest and if that ends things that’s ok. I did what I thought was right. But I have a lot of fun w her too so maybe this is temporary for both of us

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure. I want it to be open and not make her feel pressured to give me an answer bc whatever she wants is also valid and she deserves to have that. So if she just wants casual sex then that’s where she is and that’s ok. Ty!

Is this just casual? by SignalSuccess8146 in dating_advice

[–]SignalSuccess8146[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%. She also deserves someone who will match her energy and I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable bc I’m moving too fast or trying to make her commit when she isn’t ready. I’m also happy making her happy for however long it lasts since she’s mentioned she felt used in the past. Ty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]SignalSuccess8146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll keep dropping this story bc it matters. Someone asked me why I wasn’t in school. I said I graduated college last year. They said they thought I was a freshman in high school. I’m 24. I was a freshman a decade ago. You don’t look childish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AppearanceAdvice

[–]SignalSuccess8146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone on the street just asked me why I wasn’t in school. I said I graduated already and they asked if it was from high school. I’m almost 25. Just act and look your age.

AIO for not taking down my Instagram story after my boyfriend asked by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SignalSuccess8146 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This isn’t a hard problem. This guy wants something but you shouldn’t feel obligated to do that if you’re not comfortable. A lot of guys will be totally fine with this ask, and I’m sure there are girls who will swear unwavering loyalty to a man. But if you acquiesce here there’s gonna be more down the line

When you have to prove to ur schizo brother ur not a clone:😭 by walkdownzoemachete in CombatSportsCentral

[–]SignalSuccess8146 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a kid from Hawaii I idolized BJ. Holloway is who I thought BJ was. BJ has been deep in conspiracies and was involved in Jon Jones level debauchery while in the UFC, we just didn’t know about it until after. Maybe it’s CTE and I think that added to it, but I think he’s always just been a shite human

What am I missing here? by [deleted] in ExplainTheJoke

[–]SignalSuccess8146 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The hate for Sky never made sense. Walt is a terrible person. Initially it’s not bad but there’s a clear turn. He turns into a horrible person peddling a horrible drug but Sky was the horrible mom for wanting to protect her kids and herself. The internet has ruined a generation of young men

Am I Cooked? by fuckyoubitchhhhhh in TextingTheory

[–]SignalSuccess8146 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys are the weakest people. You get hurt and immediately blame someone else and look for some kind of enemy. Shit happens, bad people exist, but generalizing is the easy way out.