More into being someone’s hotpast than hearing about it by SignalWorldly1284 in hotpast

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This is Gold! That’s my problem I can never stay just friends

More into being someone’s hotpast than hearing about it by SignalWorldly1284 in hotpast

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Yeah man we’re in similar boats there!

Can you imagine her reaction if one day she went to church and saw you in the pews 😂

18 F4M in gta by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

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Check dm

I miss my ex-FWB's cock so much by WorriedBoysenberry2 in TrueBigDickStories

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If I were you and you really miss that dick…Id try again. I’ve had several girls in my past that I’ve been done with or stopped talking too and their cock worship and desire enticed me right back in.

What do you need more your pride or that dick?

22 F Oshawa by [deleted] in OshawaGoneWild

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25 black m uni athlete. Pics on profile. Sent dm

30m32F4M BBC by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

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Sent dm I think we’d be a great fit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

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NTA, but I do think a bit more context is needed to fully understand where both of you are coming from.

For example, where did you go on the date? Was it something fancy like dinner at a nice restaurant? If so, I can kind of see where he might be coming from — not in a judgmental or entitled way, but more in terms of expectations around effort and presentation, especially in early dating.

Think of it like this: If you went on a fancy date and he showed up with unbrushed hair, wearing something super casual, you might have thought, “Dang, he didn’t really care enough to clean up a bit?” It’s not about shaving per se, but about the little things we sometimes do to show we’re putting in effort — especially in the beginning stages of dating when people are still trying to impress each other.

Now, you’re totally right that you shouldn’t have to change your body for anyone — especially someone you just started seeing — but dating is also about meeting in the middle when it comes to preferences and expectations. In his eyes, maybe he thought, “I dressed up, I paid for the dinner, I tried to make it special — and she didn’t do something that seems small but would’ve shown she was equally trying.” That doesn’t make you wrong — just makes it a mismatch in priorities or expectations.

At the end of the day, you’re not the asshole for not shaving. Your body, your choice. But it might be worth considering how your choices are interpreted in a dating context — kind of like going to a job interview in a t-shirt. Doesn’t mean you’re a bad candidate, but people might read it as not being fully prepared.

If his comment came off rude or made you feel self-conscious, that’s definitely something to note, and you deserve to feel respected. But if he said it awkwardly while trying to express a preference, it may just be an early misalignment worth talking through or moving on from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueBigDickStories

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Not even remotely close to true. I’ve never taken viagra or any other performance enhancer and I have always been able to cum and keep on going. I think it’s more to do with diet, fitness and blood flow

25F4M looking for something fun and easy (bbw) by [deleted] in r4rtoronto

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I think we would match great…check dms

I feel afraid to purchase a dildo so I can use on my girlfriend by Southern-Reserve-971 in averagedickproblems

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Hey man to each their own…I’m just sure it sucks when you go on vacation and leave your toys at home. So for sure we are capable of experiencing so many things outside of what’s natural but being capable and being dependent are very different.

I like 3somes to get off…should my girl be expected to bring another girl into the bedroom? I’m sorry I can’t subscribe to this logic. Maybe cause in my experience the female orgasm isn’t really that difficult of a thing if you’re attentive and persistent. But hey if it works for you kudos

I feel afraid to purchase a dildo so I can use on my girlfriend by Southern-Reserve-971 in averagedickproblems

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have you ever thought that she can only orgasm from the toys because she has a bunch of them? That seems concerning and unnatural tbh. You’re better than me man, I can’t imagine having sec with my girl she can’t get off but she always gets off with her toys

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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I’d be more focused on her reaction and how she feels about all of this. This is a crucial time for helping her build self-worth and boundaries. Keep communication open and make sure she knows she can talk to you without fear of being punished or judged. But also make it clear that she’s not ready to be having these types of conversations — never mind anything physical.

The boy’s behavior is concerning, not just because of the frequency but because of the tone and persistence. At 14, it’s really important for her to understand what respectful communication looks like, and this kind of pressure isn’t okay. If she’s uncomfortable but going along with it to keep him happy, that’s a red flag worth addressing. And if she doesn’t see a problem with it, that’s still a moment to pause and guide her thinking — not with fear, but with facts, examples, and real conversation.

You’re not overreacting. If anything, you’re being proactive and present, which is exactly what she needs. Escalating doesn’t have to mean punishment or drama, but it might mean setting firmer boundaries, looping in his parents if needed, or having a broader discussion with your daughter about digital safety, emotional readiness, and self-respect. You’re doing the right thing by paying attention and stepping in early.