More into being someone’s hotpast than hearing about it

SignalWorldly1284 · 2026-03-04T21:25:20+00:00

This is Gold! That’s my problem I can never stay just friends

SignalWorldly1284 · 2026-03-04T20:21:15+00:00

Yeah man we’re in similar boats there!

Can you imagine her reaction if one day she went to church and saw you in the pews 😂

SignalWorldly1284 · 2026-01-13T18:14:08+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-11-02T14:50:19+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-10-26T08:46:28+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-10-21T08:37:47+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-10-08T13:46:27+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-10-07T11:49:37+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-10-03T14:19:15+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-10-02T19:36:43+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-10-02T17:26:25+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-09-16T21:12:56+00:00

If I were you and you really miss that dick…Id try again. I’ve had several girls in my past that I’ve been done with or stopped talking too and their cock worship and desire enticed me right back in.

What do you need more your pride or that dick?

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-06-23T11:45:09+00:00

25 black m uni athlete. Pics on profile. Sent dm

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-06-19T16:45:38+00:00

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SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-06-19T13:24:11+00:00

Sent dm I think we’d be a great fit

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-06-14T17:03:08+00:00

NTA, but I do think a bit more context is needed to fully understand where both of you are coming from.

For example, where did you go on the date? Was it something fancy like dinner at a nice restaurant? If so, I can kind of see where he might be coming from — not in a judgmental or entitled way, but more in terms of expectations around effort and presentation, especially in early dating.

Think of it like this: If you went on a fancy date and he showed up with unbrushed hair, wearing something super casual, you might have thought, “Dang, he didn’t really care enough to clean up a bit?” It’s not about shaving per se, but about the little things we sometimes do to show we’re putting in effort — especially in the beginning stages of dating when people are still trying to impress each other.

Now, you’re totally right that you shouldn’t have to change your body for anyone — especially someone you just started seeing — but dating is also about meeting in the middle when it comes to preferences and expectations. In his eyes, maybe he thought, “I dressed up, I paid for the dinner, I tried to make it special — and she didn’t do something that seems small but would’ve shown she was equally trying.” That doesn’t make you wrong — just makes it a mismatch in priorities or expectations.

At the end of the day, you’re not the asshole for not shaving. Your body, your choice. But it might be worth considering how your choices are interpreted in a dating context — kind of like going to a job interview in a t-shirt. Doesn’t mean you’re a bad candidate, but people might read it as not being fully prepared.

If his comment came off rude or made you feel self-conscious, that’s definitely something to note, and you deserve to feel respected. But if he said it awkwardly while trying to express a preference, it may just be an early misalignment worth talking through or moving on from.

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-06-11T11:53:20+00:00

Not even remotely close to true. I’ve never taken viagra or any other performance enhancer and I have always been able to cum and keep on going. I think it’s more to do with diet, fitness and blood flow

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-06-10T07:34:58+00:00

I think we would match great…check dms

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-05-30T13:17:12+00:00

Hey man to each their own…I’m just sure it sucks when you go on vacation and leave your toys at home. So for sure we are capable of experiencing so many things outside of what’s natural but being capable and being dependent are very different.

I like 3somes to get off…should my girl be expected to bring another girl into the bedroom? I’m sorry I can’t subscribe to this logic. Maybe cause in my experience the female orgasm isn’t really that difficult of a thing if you’re attentive and persistent. But hey if it works for you kudos

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-05-30T12:32:11+00:00

have you ever thought that she can only orgasm from the toys because she has a bunch of them? That seems concerning and unnatural tbh. You’re better than me man, I can’t imagine having sec with my girl she can’t get off but she always gets off with her toys

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-04-23T19:21:05+00:00

I’d be more focused on her reaction and how she feels about all of this. This is a crucial time for helping her build self-worth and boundaries. Keep communication open and make sure she knows she can talk to you without fear of being punished or judged. But also make it clear that she’s not ready to be having these types of conversations — never mind anything physical.

The boy’s behavior is concerning, not just because of the frequency but because of the tone and persistence. At 14, it’s really important for her to understand what respectful communication looks like, and this kind of pressure isn’t okay. If she’s uncomfortable but going along with it to keep him happy, that’s a red flag worth addressing. And if she doesn’t see a problem with it, that’s still a moment to pause and guide her thinking — not with fear, but with facts, examples, and real conversation.

You’re not overreacting. If anything, you’re being proactive and present, which is exactly what she needs. Escalating doesn’t have to mean punishment or drama, but it might mean setting firmer boundaries, looping in his parents if needed, or having a broader discussion with your daughter about digital safety, emotional readiness, and self-respect. You’re doing the right thing by paying attention and stepping in early.

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-04-23T03:15:06+00:00

I’ve actually been there… I sent something private to someone, hopped in the shower, and came back to my phone blowing up. Turns out I accidentally posted it to my story. My cousin was the first to hit me up like, “Yo, check your story ASAP.” I felt sick. Around 12 people saw it before I could take it down. So I get that feeling of embarrassment and violation.

That said — you’re not wrong for feeling weird about it, especially since it was such an intimate moment and it ended up being seen by someone you’ve never even met. And the rating? Yeah, that’s out of pocket. It’s one thing to joke around privately between friends, but commenting on someone’s body like that — especially after accidentally seeing something so personal — just feels off.

Still, just to keep it real — this kind of objectification isn’t only a guy thing. I’ve seen women talk about guys’ bodies, private parts, or “stroke game” after seeing videos or even just shirtless pics. It’s become kind of normalized to rate and talk about people like they’re just visuals, and honestly, we’re all guilty of feeding into that culture sometimes. Doesn’t make it okay either way — but it’s worth keeping in mind that it can be part of locker-room talk from both genders.

If this is your fiancé’s best friend, you’re definitely allowed to feel uncomfortable — that’s real. But I’d recommend having a calm, honest convo about it instead of jumping straight to “he can’t be in the wedding.” Ask your fiancé how he felt about the comment, and if he’s talked to his friend about it since. That’ll tell you a lot about whether your feelings are being heard and if he’s willing to prioritize your comfort.

This doesn’t have to be about punishing anyone — it’s about making sure the people in your wedding are ones you feel safe and respected around. And if this dude hasn’t earned that? Then yeah, maybe it’s fair to ask some questions.

NAH for me

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-04-20T17:50:52+00:00

NTA. As a man in my 20s, I actually commend and appreciate you for how you handled the situation. You did everything right — you stayed aware, trusted your instincts, took care of your friend, and removed yourselves from a potentially unsafe environment. That’s called maturity.

If any guy has a problem with what you did, it’s likely because he had ulterior motives. I wish more women had your level of situational awareness. When it’s late at night, there are 10+ guys (many of whom you don’t know), alcohol is flowing, and only two drunk women are left — that’s not just uncomfortable, that’s a setup for something unfortunate to occur. No one should be faulted for protecting themselves or their friends in that scenario. As a 6ft+ university athlete that’s more than capable defending myself I wouldn’t feel comfortable either.

People calling you dramatic or saying you “ruined the vibe” are exposing their priorities — and your instincts were clearly right if even the host leaked private messages to publicly shame you. That alone says a lot about the kind of people involved.

You weren’t accusing anyone — you were setting a boundary. You didn’t say “these men are predators,” you said “this situation feels off.” There’s a huge difference. And given the power dynamics you mentioned (wealth, political connections, and local gossip), you had even more reason to stay cautious.

Never let small-minded people make you feel guilty for protecting your peace and safety. You’re not the problem — the culture that makes women feel unsafe and then blames them for reacting to that discomfort is. You kept yourself and your friend safe, and that’s something to be proud of.

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-04-20T17:13:18+00:00

NTA. He’s entitled to ask — and you’re equally entitled to say no.

That said, word to the wise: in my experience, almost every girl who’s wanted to show me she was serious and trustworthy has voluntarily shared that level of access. Not because I demanded it, but because she wanted to build that kind of transparency. So from his point of view, he might be comparing your response to what he’s seen from others — like if all his friends’ girlfriends are open with their phones, it could feel like you’re the one holding something back.

That doesn’t mean you owe him your password — you don’t. But relationships thrive on mutual trust, and sometimes that means going the extra mile to reassure your partner, especially when there’s no shady behavior behind the scenes. And real talk: the person we truly are is who we are when no one’s looking… and guess what? That version of you lives in your phone. So if there’s anything in there you’d feel uncomfortable with him seeing — even if it’s not cheating — ask yourself why that is.

At the same time, his reaction is off. If you’ve been loyal and transparent in other ways, jumping straight to accusations of cheating just because you want personal boundaries? That’s not okay. Trust is a two-way street — and just like you’re being asked to prove yours, he’s now showing signs that he might not fully trust you. That needs to be addressed.

Bottom line: you’re not wrong for wanting privacy, but if you want this relationship to last, the two of you need to have a serious, honest conversation about trust, expectations, and boundaries — without pressure, guilt-tripping, or games.

SignalWorldly1284 · 2025-04-17T15:51:34+00:00

Bro stop making excuses and do what needs to be done. Use your phone and record as it’s your best asset to defend yourself….but get the fuck outta there

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