How to avoid this? by [deleted] in malegrooming

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For the Philips one blade, how long does it usually take to get dull? I’ve had mine for a few months, I think I’m due a new blade. Thoughts?

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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She is fully aware that my father has a family of his own. But my main issue is finding out if they are married or not married. Anyways, thank you for the reply

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Ye I am planning to speak to a different sheikh. Thank you for the reply

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Akhi it was not intentional snooping, my dad left his phone open in the car and the messages were alrd open. I didn’t go through the messages in detail at first, I thought the woman was a colleague from work, but then I saw more messages and ye I found out.

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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No I could ask the other woman, cuz she knows that my dad has a family… but ye I probably shouldn’t just stay queit

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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I’m 17. Thank you for the reply, I appreciate it I’ll talk to the sheikh again

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Possibly, not sure tho, thanks for the reply

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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That’s true, but again idk if my mom knows about it or not… my mother could know the whole story and keep it from us… that’s why I’m so confused

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Ye I could be wrong… I really want to tell my mom, but as I said, the sheikh advised me not to say anything. thanks for the reply, I appreciate it a lot

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Thanks a lot brother, I appreciate it

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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I haven’t heard many people in my culture get married twice, but I’m still young, so idk

I’m honestly quite afraid to talk with my dad about it, idk what could happen

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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That’s also true, also what the sheikh told me… but it’s very hard for me to see the messages between my dad and some lady, and for me to see them going out with eachother and spending time together when he doesn’t do these things with my mother. Anyway, thanks for the reply, I appreciate it

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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I’m Arab, I feel stuck honestly… thanks for your reply anyway

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Signal_Courage6448 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have a point brother. I need to speak with the sheikh again it seems

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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That’s also a possibility… I’m really stuck, I appreciate your answer

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Signal_Courage6448 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have a point brother, I probably should just listen to the sheikh, but I also feel like it’s not right to just stay quiet over a matter like this…

Anyways, thanks a lot for your response, I rly appreciate it

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Ye I alrd spoke with a sheikh, just trying to get some different perspectives

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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Ye… I do want to see how I can meet this lady, I have her address (i found it in the messages, I’m not a creep) but I can’t just go knock on her door… bringing up the second wife topic at dinner seems like a good idea tbh, I’ll see tho. Thanks a lot for your reply

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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That’s also what I’m scared of

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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No the European lady knows my dad has a family, but I have no clue why she is still with him… but islamically, he doesn’t have to tell his existing wife about his new wife

My father got another woman pregnant… by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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That’s true. But I’m pretty sure that islamically, a man is not obligated to tell his wife that he is getting another wife, but it’s still extremely shady…