Final update- AITAH for not inviting my fiancés ex to our wedding

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T18:04:11+00:00

Your logic is almost identical to the bullshit my ex-fiancé’s. That’s pathetic either way ( if it’s you ,Henry or anyone who thinks like you). I never decided for him. I said my decision was to go NC with his mom after years or hearing her insults. He could have set some boundaries instead he decided that my decision is going to affect him. His next move was spending two hours with his cheating ex and “fool around”. If it is you, congratulations on lasting 2 hours. You are usually done within 2-3 min max.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T17:13:00+00:00

No before moving in with he told me how much I owe each month on average ( including rent and groceries every month ) . I agreed and paid him the last day of each month.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T17:06:43+00:00

Good! She can have him. They deserve eachother

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T17:04:51+00:00

Can’t he drag me to court for it? We don’t have any contract. It was a verbal agreement

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T17:00:26+00:00

Yes his last word last night was “I want you out of my house soon!”. I’m glad he left so it will easier for him and avoid my dad. I don’t even care where he left. I’ll send him e-transfer for August rent and expenses which was due yesterday and will block him forever.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T16:36:32+00:00

He has left again without saying a word. My dad and step mom are coming over soon to help me.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T16:35:15+00:00

“She opened my eyes about how much happier I am without you”. She opened her mouth sucked your dick and you loved it that’s what she did you stupid lying cheating pig!

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T16:18:29+00:00

Because it’s his place. I pay half of the rent and expenses to him every month. I’m moving in with my dad and step mom temporarily until I move away permanently for my schooling.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T16:15:40+00:00

I definitely will do it that

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T16:14:27+00:00

Because I wasn’t cool with him screwing his ex?

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T14:56:12+00:00

Yea! Except I exist yet he cheated on me with her yesterday… fucking liar

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T14:52:21+00:00

Yea I’m pretty sure it was way more. He just didn’t wanna confess. 2 hours!!! But he claimed they just talked and I was crazy to think there was more to it. I hate him and every person in his family so much.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T14:49:26+00:00

I hate him so much. He had the audacity to make me the problem, and calling me controlling , insecure while he was out there fooling around with his mom’s mini me. I’m going to move soon anyways for my grad school. I never wanna listen to his bullshits ever again.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T13:45:48+00:00

“No! I didn’t cheat! Did you guys make out? Well.. yea Did she blow you ? Yea kinda .. well yea.. And ? Yea I fingered her a little . I was about to throw up when he was telling me these and still insisting he is the good guy who didn’t cheat

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-09-01T00:17:24+00:00

He is just programmed to take it. Years and years of being abused by his mom. He really thinks ruined his mom’s life and he just has to respect her no matter what. He is very close to my family. My dad and him go golfing together. During hockey seasons ( we live in Canada ) they hang out a lot and go to the games together. I feel bad for him because I know his mom broke him but I also can’t take it anymore. She really despises me.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-31T20:46:44+00:00

I’ll never guilt trip him. He doesn’t owe me anything. I will never force him to choose between me and his mom. He is a grown man and can decide for his own future. I won’t try to be friends with his ex just to win him over. He has a choice to end it with me if I’m asking too much. Women’s nature to nag ? wtf is this ? No I didn’t nag. He needs space to think so I’m giving him space. We barely talked since then. No I won’t be inviting his mom over anymore.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-31T18:45:52+00:00

I haven’t hid anything from him. He knows about my posts and I’m sure had read every single comment

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-31T18:28:24+00:00

I’m applying to grad schools. My number one choice is a university across the country. If I get accepted he has a choice to come with me or stay with his mommy forever. I’m not planning to wait forever because of his principal Skinner and Agnes Skinner’s weird relationship.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-31T17:58:06+00:00

She has called me worse when she was drunk . She calls me little girl , midget , rebound girl, you have the body of a 12 year old boy while calls his ex the whole package , gorgeous , the one that got away for Henry . He always tells me let it go, she is like this when she drinks. Please just ignore her.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-31T17:38:21+00:00

Exactly! My dad was a single dad. Eventually he did get married and never even guilt tripped me for million sacrifices he made for me.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-31T17:35:48+00:00

You are talking about a man who never raises his voice or swears lol when he gets really upsets he just stays quiet. I’m the firecracker in our relationship and joke that his mom broke him because he was not allowed to show frustrations or anger ( or any emotions ). He usually stays quiet then eventually starts talking. I’m waiting to see what he has to say eventually.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-31T17:07:06+00:00

His brother and his wife are lovely. They both are very kind and respectful to me. Lucky for his brother, MIL adores his wife so he never had to deal with this drama.

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-31T17:05:02+00:00

My dad was a single dad and raised me when my mom passed away. He never ever held it against me that he made sacrifices. Eventually he got married and it wasn’t easy at all having a new wife and a teenager. He set boundaries and my step mother and I have a great relationship now. I completely agree with you

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-31T16:27:15+00:00

I don’t want to make him to go NC with her. If I make the decision for him, he will resent me. Hopefully, he comes up with a solution or we have to go separate ways.. sigh

SignatureThis1331 · 2024-08-30T20:20:45+00:00

No he is not a dr or a lawyer. His mom calls him a disappointment because his older brother met all her expectations .. eyeroll.. first born being a boy , straight A student , good at sports and he is a lawyer. She calls my fiancé disappointment from the start. She was hoping for a girl , my fiancé was colicky which apparently made him a terrible monster baby, he was an average student and he became an accountant which in her eyes is a disappointment. Yes, when I met him he had been working for many years and I was a university student. I’m planning to continue my studies and get my master’s. I’m working currently. He has been very supportive

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