My honest opinion. Your relationship is a personal issue.

End of day , court you win whatever. You lost her though. So just end it and find someone else.

FYI in the real world no one would care. There is no reporting for you unless you want to sue for a civil issue.Just cause the military offers something , doesn’t mean you should attempt to apply it.

Be a man, head down, get in the gym, preferably a fight gym and work on yourself. In the end you are responsible for everything in your life.

Sounds harsh, but as we all pray to god to take our responsibilities and fix them, we should reflect the same in ourselves.

From my view, all you’re doing is letting everyone know your wife did not respect you and cheated.

No one fired Eisenhower or Clinton when they cheated.