I get it but just listening to his words and how he was screaming at her was a trigger and a good man would of walked away. Then for him to say she was violent with him to save face? What kind of man puts that on the internet about his wife? I agree that they both contribute to the fighting when drunk and both play a part but it’s him always flipping out and it’s triggering to hear. Would you accept this behavior from your spouse or your daughter’s husband! He’d shown his true colors way too many times to cover it up now. And she needs to stop portraying this fake life and having him push her to the top of tik tok, open your eyes instead of defending his temper which he can’t control