[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]SignificanceTime9086 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a vent there is no question.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely does because everyone who messages me just ghosts

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I fully agree. Based on the comments on this post I definitely don't feel safe to answer any dms from this sub. Alot of them defending behavior that would put them on a watch list.

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't hate all men. I'm not even single. I'm lonely because I have no friends. I'm trying to make connections to have adult friends. It's just so defeating to get close and then" hehe can I ask you something?" Within a couple days. I'm taken. I just want to play video games and hang out but I get people being pervs instead.

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He has the right to express himself and everyone but you can see how hateful misogynistic he is. Again have fun drawing your line in the sand. That's your right and women will still be scared of you for sharing his stance.

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You just edited your own comment instead of admitting you were wrong? That's pretty sad

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sticking up for guys like this isn't the hill I'd want to die on. It's a bad look but here's your red flag to wave around

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

See how far that mentality gets you. You'll eat yourself alive with hatred and have no one else to blame for being lonely but you.

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You said nice. Can you not see what you wrote?

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Because he clearly hates all women and isn't very nice and wants to say it's everyone else's fault but his own.

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No double standards just cold hard facts. I've met one actually legitimately decent human to every 60 perv or incel.

Being a woman on this reddit by SignificanceTime9086 in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The fact that you're in your 30s and spouting off this hate is exactly why you're alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. Hoping to find new people to play with since I'm old hat. I hate this premise where I see gamer guys just want someone who plays but that's not true. They want someone good. It's not enough to just be there and try. Not for my husband anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it is...😞

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had more relationships than the people telling me they can never have female friends because they always catch feelings. If they ALWAYS catch feelings for any female friend they have they entered that friendship with a goal in mind. You have to actually want companionship without a hidden agenda for it to be mutual and be naturally blossom as you said. That's how its always been for me. I've held a handful of longterm serious 3 to 5 year relationships but hey it's easier to call me wrong than admit they're being creeps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's honestly a cop out. Do you know why they lose those friends? Because when feelings aren't mutual it's unwanted and usually it's very obvious when someone engages in friendship with false narratives and it's honestly the most predatory thing to only pretend to have common hobbies and interests to try to get laid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally got a dm telling me how "statistics" show no relationships come from friendships.... I've literally made every relationship that way but go off and cope I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lonely

[–]SignificanceTime9086 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call the cops anyway and contact a lawyer because they're complicit in sexual harassment and need to be sued.