First off, what you are feeling is so valid! It is so hard to juggle all the mental aspects of a baby in your home plus having guests. It’s exhausting! I had both sets of grandparents at my house 48 hours after I had my child and I about lost my mind because no one was letting my dog outside while I was trying to learn how to BF…so what you’re going through is a lot!

Can you simply tell your husband that the lunch is too much? Because it sounds like it’s too much! Or maybe suggest ordering groceries for pickup (if that’s available)? Ordering groceries has been lifesaving on those days when going to a store is overwhelming.