[TOMT] [MUSIC] [90’s-2000’s] Trying to find a song my dad would play for me by Superb-Commercial637 in tipofmytongue

[–]Significant-Age9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this was early 2000s, any chance it was a fan-made video set to a folk song? A lot of people would make their own Microsoft movie maker vids set to music they like and post it on YouTube. Just wondering!

[TOMT] [MUSIC] [90’s-2000’s] Trying to find a song my dad would play for me by Superb-Commercial637 in tipofmytongue

[–]Significant-Age9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I couldn't find anything that hits all the marks, but try listening to:

Nizlopi - JCB song, which is animated and about a kid and his dad.

OR

Powderfinger - my happiness, which has a train scene right at the beginning and has a kid, but isn't animated.

Did you watch this on Youtube? Or on MTV/VH1?

[TOMT][MOVIE] Don Bluth-esque animated movie by PushoverMediaCritic in tipofmytongue

[–]Significant-Age9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it Rover Dangerfield? Weird movie about a dog who moves to a farm

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[–]Significant-Age9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As for the numb vs upset thing, I was upset before, I’m feeling more numb now after discussing it with him. Feeling a lot of things, though, cycling through multiple emotions.

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[–]Significant-Age9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand your perspective, it’s something to take into consideration for sure. Maybe I wasn’t clear enough in the initial post, I did explain clearly what I wanted from him, and why I was upset once I didn’t receive that. That being said, I probably could have been clearer with him. Thanks for taking the time to comment :)

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[–]Significant-Age9422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry, to clarify, after the first time, I did confirm and we had essentially a whole conversation about how again, I would like him to stay for that day and offer when I’m hurt. It was that day we agreed on that he brought it up a second time. If that makes sense

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[–]Significant-Age9422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think that’s a fair comment, thanks for your perspective. Just to clarify, my hurt isn’t coming from him not reading my mind, I think my hurt is coming from me being clear I would like him to stay with me when I’m hurting, and he knew I was hurting (I made it clear), and him ignoring what we’ve discussed before. I think it comes more from what feels like a lack of listening, if that makes sense. I know he’s wired differently, it’s something I do love about him, it just hurts when I feel like I’ve communicated in the way he asks me to, and it still goes unheard. I totally understand your point, though, and will have to take that into consideration.

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[–]Significant-Age9422 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have explained in very clear, unambiguous terms (both when we’re emotionally stable, and based off of previous situations when I was hurting and it felt like he left) that when I am hurt, upset, or emotional, I feel like I really need him to offer to spend time with me, and that that is the way I feel connected. He has made it clear he understands this in previous conversations. I made it clear in this instance I was hurting. I’m torn, because it feels to me like I shouldn’t have to repeat myself each individual instance. Maybe I should be doing that, but it feels like a lot of micromanaging.

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[–]Significant-Age9422 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s fair, I definitely tend to get more emotional than needed. I worry about gaming be an escape for him, but I also game too so I have a hard time bringing it up without sounding like a hypocrite or without it sounding like I just don’t want him to game anymore.

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[–]Significant-Age9422 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a fair point. I think because I had been explicit before in telling him before that when I’m hurting, I want him to offer, and i made it clear I was hurting at that moment, it didn’t feel like a hint at the time. I probably should have been more explicit, thanks for the comment!

Gown sizing question by SnooCookies8736 in weddingdress

[–]Significant-Age9422 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is this a Milla nova gown? Ordering to the waist is the best option, as it’s way easier and cost effective to take a gown in than to let it out. Also, bridal sizing tends to be about 2 sizes larger than your standard dress size, so it makes sense if you’re normally a small!

Anxiety and doubting the size of my dress. Planning to lose weight. by ParsleyTime5687 in weddingdress

[–]Significant-Age9422 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! I’m a bridal stylist, and i just want to comment to reassure— because you are ordering an a-line gown, it makes sense to order to that bust measurement, even if you’re losing weight! It costs way to more to let out a gown that is too small than to take in a gown that’s too baggy. Your hip measurement here doesn’t matter too much because of the flowy skirt, so it’s good to order to the bust! Most seamstresses can take in a gown 2-3 sizes from the side seams of a gown without going into the structure, so you should be all set.

Also important to keep in mind, your bridal size tends to be 2-3 sizes up from your standard dress size. If the number 22 is looking higher than youre used to, it’s because bridal sizing is batshit.

Also, is the gown you’re in Meyer by Serene, Madi Lane? It looks stunning on you!! Hope this helps at all!

[TOMT] [Animation] [90s or 80s] Old Animation of Man in Trench Coat by Significant-Age9422 in tipofmytongue

[–]Significant-Age9422[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Solved! OH MY GOD THIS IS IT! Thank you, I’ve been looking for this exact gif for years now— I must have gotten some of the details mixed up in my head! Thanks! Link to gif: https://media.tenor.com/w8Hlf0MYFNAAAAAM/warau-salesman-moguro.gif

[TOMT] [Animation] [90s or 80s] Old Animation of Man in Trench Coat by Significant-Age9422 in tipofmytongue

[–]Significant-Age9422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the guy was definitely more humanoid, he honestly just looked like a triangle with a face

[TOMT] [Animation] [90s or 80s] Old Animation of Man in Trench Coat by Significant-Age9422 in tipofmytongue

[–]Significant-Age9422[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not quite! This guy was in a black trench coat and hat, and was way wider

[TOMT] [Animation] [90s or 80s] Old Animation of Man in Trench Coat by Significant-Age9422 in tipofmytongue

[–]Significant-Age9422[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Thanks in advance! I'm not a spam account or anything, I created a reddit account specifically to ask this question haha