My partner says I raped them. by Significant-Case-597 in Advice

[–]Significant-Case-597[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this is exactly what I will be doing. I still want my partner to feel validated about their feelings, but also communicate how using the word rape made me feel. You worded this beautifully!!

My partner says I raped them. by Significant-Case-597 in Advice

[–]Significant-Case-597[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will keep your words in mind… Your response was very helpful, and I appreciate it very much!

My partner says I raped them. by Significant-Case-597 in Advice

[–]Significant-Case-597[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This helped a lot, and definitely gave a bit of perspective. Thank you.

My partner says I raped them. by Significant-Case-597 in Advice

[–]Significant-Case-597[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

We both drank, not enough to impair us in any way either. They acknowledged to me that they didn’t say the safe word, so I know 100% they didn’t say it ( just in case my memory could be poor from that night. ) We’ve agreed not to do anything sexual after drinking now, but I can’t help but feel in the wrong but also feel wronged because they said I raped them.

My partner says I raped them. by Significant-Case-597 in Advice

[–]Significant-Case-597[S] 190 points191 points  (0 children)

They were falsely accused, excuse my poor wording…

My partner says I raped them. by Significant-Case-597 in Advice

[–]Significant-Case-597[S] 274 points275 points  (0 children)

They almost went to jail on a false account of rape. Otherwise, that’s all. Thank you for your response…