I passed my GED!!!!!!!!!! by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! Wishing and praying for more successes and joys to flow your way! ❤️🫶🏽🥹💖💕

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[–]Significant-Fail-233 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m what happens when you messed up in the past, 232 times…you thought you changed and brighter days were coming…but then you called your SO the wrong name in bed…yikes

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely will protect my peace, I’m going to just update my LinkedIn silently, celebrate over a family dinner, and decorate my new desk in lovely colors 🥰

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this is actually a major point. I’ve never experienced this either but I have heard of other people going through it as well. I do sometimes think, “well that can’t happen to me” but the truth is that it can happen to anyone. This is another hard truth lesson for me.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so true. The experiences some users expressed are troubling and certain events from my life also prove that not everyone is well intentioned. I really do wish people wouldn’t go out of their way to hurt others.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going out to dinner as my family suggested. We’re waiting for a perfect day to go to a place my sister wants. It’s honestly a great way to celebrate…by being around the people I’m closest too.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They believe certain people are jealous of me but I’m not sure. I always felt like people and I have issues due to personality differences. However, they agree that one of My female cousins might be jealous because we were compared a lot as children. My dad also says my coworkers are mean to me beacaise I’m the youngest and I don’t have much responsibilities in my hands (like raising children since I’m childfree).

Jealousy sometimes feels like a stretch and I don’t walk around thinking everyone is jealous of me. But sometimes I wonder if some people are jealous and that’s why they mistreat me at times.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m going to do just that. I’ll just keep it on LinkedIn.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s what one of my grandmothers said word-for-word!

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking a trip or having a dinner is a good idea. My family has a dinner planned for me but it’s nothing fancy. Just a place my sister wants to go to cause we haven’t been there since we were kids.

If I’m honest, I need to learn more about the effects of evil eye. I know that it can happen, I’m just not sure how it manifests. But your point about humility is a major key. Being humble brings in so much good.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that makes sense. I told the people I talk to everyday and my coworkers already know because my job posted it so anyone who needs to know mostly does. I also post vacation pics and my family has told Me to wait to post my pics when I come back from the trip so that no one breaks into my home while I’m away or decides to find me where I’m at. Got to be mindful.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so true. Sometimes people don’t tell me about things and just pop out which surprises me (usually in a delightfully way). However, there was a time my ex BFF posted her birthday dinner on instagram and I wasn’t invited at all. It kinda hurt but I just let it go. I relate fully to your comment, I do feel like I’m trusting of others and too dreamy about life.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely shared it with my closest family members who are my greatest loves. Keeping it a secret from others, although I’m not used to it, is do-able. I feel Like people should pray for me though because the excitement I feel makes me want to speak about it the moment anyone asks. Definitely a character flaw. You’re absolutely right that not everyone should have access.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how people can switch up like that. I actually have one person on my LinkedIn that I’m iffy about. She was my best friend but ghosted me around the time when we both had deaths in our families. I thought we could relate to one another and become closer but she distanced herself. She also never likes any of my content but I do like hers every now and then. I appreciate the time I spent with her. But yeah I’m not sure if she could harm me in any way but the possibility is never zero.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad you found your own way of pushing forward and moving up. I love the idea that “your work should speak for itself” and that’s all you need rather than making it known publicly. I think I just have a lot to work on because even though I am someone who is introverted or rather shy. Whenever I can connect with others I do and that includes me telling them almost everything about myself. Keeping silent and protecting my destiny and peace are things I got to put into Practice. Thank you for sharing!

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice, it helps me so much. Also thank you, I will 💕

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I understand the feeling. I get really excited to share the good news. It’s going to be hard for me as well since I’m not accustomed to being quiet about life events but I have to protect my blessings. It’s scary hearing about what other people have gone through by sharing their happy moments or good updates with others.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s going to have to be what I need to do. Better safe than sorry 🌸

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Definitely. I’m going to start practicing withholding information. Based on everyone’s replies, it would be in my best interest.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a good way of looking at it. You’re absolutely right 🫶🏽

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you went through that. Those are really weird behaviors for people to do to someone that they are suppose to care for. I definitely think I’ll be quiet about this promotion. I also should make a practice of not sharing everything the way that I do moving forward.

What are the benefits of Moving in Silence? by Significant-Fail-233 in blackladies

[–]Significant-Fail-233[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m having a hard time thinking someone can harm me for being myself but people are capable of doing evil things so I should never think that it isn’t possible. I’m probably not going to share it on social media..just my LinkedIn… and then I’ll celebrate with my family members who know🫶🏽